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Relationship issues
I am married for14 yrs . With a 13 yr old kid. Facing issues in relationships.im into this guy who is also married ,somehow we came into contact and then love happened in 2011.. that time it was long distance relationship. But since he came back in 2012, his father was critically ill as soon as he came Nd dint even speak to me or even tried contacting me and though he was very close to me , he surprised me with the news about his wife pregnancy.i just forgave him for everything he did and supported him financially,emotionally in every step. It's been 5 yrs for now , it's lot of ups and down. Now it's reached to a stage where is feel he doesn't care about me anymore and anytime is his family which comes in between and create a nonstop fight in between us. I somehow want to move on with my life, but this guy doesnt leave me and everytime is ready and back to hurt me again and again. I'm getting depressed and unable to share anything with anybody about this. Please help me
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He can only hurt you if you allow him to hurt you. You need to develop a indifferent attitude. If your heart will keep hope you will never be able to move on. You cut him off in all ways and try to be productive in your life. 100% efforts will yield results. Its your decision and he should respect that.
talk to a psychologist.
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Dr. Rakhi Anand (PhD)
Psychologist
33 yrs exp
Delhi
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As mentioned above , you are troubled by the complications in the relationship which is always going to be like it because both of you have your own families as well. This relationship does not have a future too and is going to affect your life in future as well. Try to move on and minimize your interaction with him and spend time with your family. For better management of the issues consult a clinical psychologist through online consultation or meet in person.
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meditate, spend time with family, engage in activities you like
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
I see a lot on confusion and lack of clarity.. It is better to consult a psychologist cum Marriage Counselor in your city personally for a detailed understanding and solutions.
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