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I am facing relation issue.i have a regular fight with my partner.He used to abuse me, scold me, become aggressive on me. I want to be with him thats why i dont say anything but this is depressing me.
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Any relationship issues has to be two ways . Rather than trying to change your spouse, see first what are the areas that can be worked out from your side - starting from your thoughts emotions & behaviour. Can empathise the situation you are in . Focus on your well being which will directly reflect on the family well-being. Its workable
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Don't try to change each other. Accept & acknowledge the differences . Embrace your relationship. Meet a marital therapist or a Psychiatrist who engages in Marital Therapy
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The fact that you want to be with him means there is still some value in the relationship. Let me tell you one thing. No marital relationship works by default. You must make it work. It could be your husband is suffering from mental issues that makes him behave this way. Keep this in consideration and do what needs to be done before thinking of ending the relationship .
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Any kind of abuse should not be tolerated. The relationship you are in is abusive and cannot be healthy. You need to ask yourself why you are ready to compromise your self esteem and are dependent on a pathological relationship. This shows a lack of respect for yourself. See a psychologist alone and if possible see a psychologist together as well.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
What are the situations when he tries to abuses you.
Is it repetitive or just get irritated for everything.
Probably, he might be undergoing so. E tensions or issues.
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Both of you fix an appointment with a psychological counselor and understand your differences and similarities and learn to accept each other.
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Dr. Mukulika Ghose Banerji (PhD)
Psychologist
32 yrs exp
Thane
Did you have a loving and close relationship with your parents when u were growing up? Do you have healthy, committed friendships? Self esteem issues frequently stem from childhood insecurities. U appear to be excessively dependant to the extent that you are ready to compromise your self worth. You may need to explore some very deep rooted issues regarding your formative years
with a competent psychologist.
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