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Hello, My bf cheated upon me n we talked about it n he was accepted his mistake but nothing is lovely in between us like before. I forgive him n really love him. I want happiness of our relationship back but don't know how coz I don't trust him like before n he is also trying to get back my trust but I think something is missing. What is missing? Why I am not happy? Please help me
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No relationship comes with bed of roses. It has it's own ups and downs. A healthy relationship is one that has love, respect, fidelity, open communication.
If someone breaks our trust we are bound to feel what you are experiencing. If you have decided to give it another shot then..
Sit with your boyfriend and pour your heart out. Express what you are feeling. When all your pent up emotions will come out you will feel better.
If things still don't work out between you then go for couple therapy by consult a Psychologist.
You are pretty young right now. Work on the goals that you have set for yourself.
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Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. Any relationship will be successful and long-Lasting if there is trust, open communication and give & take between partners. If any of these goes for a toss, it takes time and sincere efforts to recover.
I would suggest both of you to go for a counseling especially pre marriage assessments type to better understand each other and identify the gaps to work from both of you.
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Mr. Sidharth Mishra
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6 yrs exp
Bhubaneswar
No matter what you think it will not take away the anger that is buried inside of you. He may be trying to win your trust but it takes time to be built. Trust is like brick and mortar takes time till one by one the trust is rebuilt. Wait for 6 months. But before that you may consider a month's distance from your boyfriend. So that you get space to heal.
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