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See my age is 22 year old and i am doing prone masturbation by using a pillow to rub my pennis to get ejaculate from childhood as i was not aware that masturbation is done by hands and when i get to know i did not try masturbation by hands but now if i am trying using my hands to masturbate i cannot achieve a ejaculation but if i used pillow / prone masturbation to rub my pennis i can achieve ejaculation within seconds
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Dear Practo User,
What you're describing is quite common. Prone masturbation (rubbing against a pillow or mattress) from childhood can condition the body to respond to a very specific type of pressure and friction. It does not mean you're permanently damaged or infertile.
At 22, many men can gradually retrain themselves to respond to hand stimulation with patience and consistency.
What I recommend:
Stop prone/pillow masturbation for 4–6 weeks.
Avoid rubbing against the mattress or pillow.
If masturbating, use your hand with adequate lubrication and don't rush.
Give yourself time—retraining may take several weeks.
If you continue to ejaculate only with prone stimulation or have difficulty during partnered sex, consult a qualified sexologist for a proper evaluation.
With the right guidance, this condition is usually manageable.
— Dr. Fayyaz, Sexology Clinic (Mumbai)
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Masturbation can be done by any means and it is your choice
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Your history strongly suggests that your body has become conditioned to a very specific form of stimulation because prone/pillow masturbation has been your main method since childhood. This does not mean that your penis is damaged or that you have permanently lost the ability to ejaculate normally. When a particular masturbation technique is used for many years, the nervous system can become accustomed to that specific pressure, friction and body position, so stimulation by the hand may initially feel insufficient. Similar situational differences in ejaculation are recognised in sexual-medicine practice.
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The main approach is gradual retraining rather than forcing ejaculation with the hand. Stop prone/pillow masturbation for now and allow yourself time to adapt to gentler, conventional stimulation. Initially, you may not reach ejaculation at allâand that is okay. Focus on erection, arousal and pleasurable sensation rather than making ejaculation the goal. Over several weeks, gradually become comfortable with hand stimulation using a gentler pressure and slower pace. If you continue to have difficulty reaching orgasm despite changing the technique, or develop erectile problems, pain, numbness or significant distress, a consultation. For better treatment and personalised guidance, you may connect with us at 9 3 1 5 6 6 1 5 6 5 for proper treatment and guidance.
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Avoid repeatedly returning to the pillow simply because ejaculation happens fasterâthat can reinforce the same conditioning. Also avoid excessive pressure or prolonged vigorous rubbing, which can contribute to temporary reduced sensitivity or irritation. Give your body time to learn a different stimulation pattern; there is no need to âproveâ that you can ejaculate with your hand every time. If you eventually have partnered sex, varying stimulation naturally can also help prevent dependence on one highly specific technique. This is a very manageable sexual-conditioning issue, and at 22 there is plenty of scope for your sexual response to become more flexible with consistent retraining. Thank you
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Take proper counselling to clear ur doubt
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Hi, behavioral techniques can help. Consult online for treatment
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