Pme and ed problem. Abuse for 7years.

When i was child i faced multuple time childhood  sexual abuse for 7years. At that time due to fear and forcefully work i ejaculate fast. i read multiple articles on masturbation like its harmful and multiple problems can occupy from that. Now it is in mind that i have problems. That fear affects me and i ejaculate fast as my brain trained. At current i m so worried about that i didn't get hard erection when i tried to do intercourse and if i get erection I loss erection immediately.Got  Ejaculation at the time on just inserting.i am Getting semierection at the time masturbation and this problem affect me in everywhere in my life. What's the solution for that without any side effect as i m young i have dream to achieve many things. I just wanna overcome with this problem and boost my confidence level to full fill my dreams pls save me.