In your case homeopathic medicine will work wonderfully as no harm will be caused to such a sensitive part of the body.. Examination plus thorough case taking would be necessary to find out the cause n then medicine can be given.
I am appreciating your act to get proper tenderness as to the doctor may visualise primary way of investigation. As the doctors are human being, they hear the patient then decide the examination, investigation and treatment. Now as you have clearly concerned your primary symptoms you should go through a proper homoeopathic characterized case recording process which will give a clear picture for your proper treatment in consultation with a gayoncologist.
Firstly you should get yourself examined to find out why you are getting the pain. It's not usual. By medicines it will go off but that's not the treatment. You have to get it diagnosed to get rid of it permanently.
pain vagina most commonly due to infection called vaginitis.it occur as result of problem with nerve fibre in that area and doesn't manifest its visuality.please consult homoeopathy doctor.having medicines like,berberis,cal_carb,graphitis,kreos.etc.along with personal hygiene. Home remedies :#turmeric power dissolve in milk can be drink daily until symptom subside.Cold water
#a cloth soaked in cold water can be laid
Above the affected area.#diet#low oxalate diet.like,beets,spinach,rhubarb,strawberries,nuts,chocolate,tea.