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She got married few months ago she lives with her in laws.she loved them and accepted them with full of her heart but God knows what were the expectations of her MIL with her no matter how hard she may try she always finds some fault in her. Now she is in so much mental trauma 24*7 she thinks same thing she is unable to sleep infact the situation is she is so afraid with her that she lost all her confidence and gets panic. It feels she is going in some kind of depression. I always finds her sad negative towards life n hopeless her parents are so worried for her. I don't know how to boost up her morale n give her hope. She tries very hard to forget all things that happened with her after her marriage all those taunts, complaints, fights but she is helpless . Her husband is nice person but sharing her pain with him is complete vain as he can't understand with she is going through. He just says things will be ok I m working on it don't worry, you try to understand etc etc. Please suggest.
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From what I gather , the person concerned is having a tough time with her in laws because they taunt her etc and the husband is not intervening. I would suggest she should start psychotherapy for these adjustment problems and later her husband can also be called in for a few sessions. Please watch for signs of depression - like isolating herself from people, hopelessness, helplessness, suicidal thoughts or plan or attempt. In our country people brush aside these things saying it happens in all houses but in many cases this ends in serious situations and many patients come to us with suicidal attempts just because the husband would not listen and her support system was not strong and because of endless harassment. Donot take this lightly please.
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Hi Thanks for seeking help here. After careful evaluation I felt ... perhaps she need supportive therapy to get rid of this mental harassment. She may very nice girl who turned into nice bride with happy life....but she should know how to cope with situations. May be she lost her temper easily.... Her mother in law may be appearing as a very rude 💓 less lady but...she is the one who is taking care of her work and guides her towards perfection. In Every family ...these are routine complains .... sometimes out of jealousy also. May be her husband is very aware of these issues and feels it's ok......to reassure her and help her in coping. This way it can go in any direction. Still she needs to speak to someone.
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