Im a 20 year old college going girl, no boyfriend ... Recently I started masturbating a lot and it is getting on nerves.. I don't want to stop it but I want reduce being affected by it mentally. I'm too much into dreaming etc which I find is not all good but am clueless about how to make things right... Please help
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Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. Anxiety, loneliness, stress in your mind is looking for such alternatives to keep yourself happy. That's it.
Try to develop alternate interests areas like hobbies, friends, excersise, household work, studies etc to reduce your urge. As body and mind are interlinked, sometimes physical conditions like excess heat in body, dietary, PMS issues can also influence such urges.
Be positive. Don't carry such mental stress within you as it will create other emotional disturbance soon. Discuss this and get advice from a psychologists.
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For reducing masturbation: Explore and make a list of time when you usually masturbate including factors which lead to it.
- avoid same factors at that particular time, e.g. If you masturbate when you are lonely, then try to be with people all the time.
- divert your mind from thoughts of masturbation: sit back, relax, drink a glass of water, try counting backwards from 50 to 1.
- if you are used to masturbate watching porn, thn block porn in internet connection and delete all the files you have.
- do other activities like swimming, walking, any outdoor sports or going out with friends - if you masturbate in shower, take a quick cold shower and get out early.
- If you masturbate while sleeping, for some days sleep in the same room with family members or friend.
- start exercising hard while you have excess thoughts of masturbation. This is how you will lose energy, feel tired and would go to sleep without masturbation.
Urges generally last not more than half hour, you have to divert your mind in this half an hour.
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