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Hi All, i am married since 2 years And now i am more comfortable and enjoy masturbation than sex. I hestitate doing sex when wife asks. I dont know why i started feeling this way.
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It could be performance anxiety which might affect your sexual function. The cause can be psychological as well as physical. It needs to be ruled out. It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated and can affect your personal and sexual life. It needs to be treated in a holistic approach for complete recovery. It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects. You need an expert Sexologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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It needs correction, let's discuss and plan your treatment plan.
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It will ruin ur happy married life... Take proper counselling to clear ur doubt..
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What you're experiencing is more common than many men realize, and it does not necessarily mean there is something seriously wrong with you or your relationship. Since you mentioned that you've been married for 2 years and now prefer masturbation over sex, while also hesitating when your wife initiates intimacy, there are several possible reasons: Frequent pornography or masturbation can sometimes make solo sexual stimulation feel easier or more predictable than partnered sex. Performance anxiety, stress, work pressure, fatigue, or relationship issues can gradually reduce interest in partnered sex. Depression, anxiety, poor sleep, certain medications, hormonal changes, or other medical conditions may also contribute to reduced sexual desire. The fact that you still enjoy masturbation suggests that your sexual desire is not completely absent, but rather that your preference or arousal pattern may have shifted.
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Exercise regularly, maintain a healthy weight, sleep 7–8 hours each night, and avoid excessive alcohol or smoking. If you use pornography regularly, cutting back often helps restore interest in real-life intimacy over time. Avoid forcing yourself to have sex out of guilt—focus instead on reconnecting emotionally with your partner. The reassuring news is that this condition is usually reversible, especially when the underlying cause is identified and addressed early. Many men regain a healthy interest in partnered sex with the right lifestyle changes, counselling, and, when needed, appropriate medical treatment. Thank you
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Hello Practo User, use homoeopathic medications for your problem  to get Instant and effective results.Its Curable, no need to worry about. Homoeopathic medicines plays Excellent role to treat Such problems in a hollistic way without any side effect.I suggest you to message me your complete history in private chat with all reports & details & Consult Online through Practo. I will guide you for holistic & effective Results with homoeopathy ! Take care !! Best Regards:)
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This is not uncommon in some people . It is a treatable condition Consult a sexologist for proper evaluation.
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I understand your concern kindly make an appointment so I can help you better.
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Consult a psychologist
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