Marriage counseling. What should i do?

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Navigating relationships and marriage decisions can be complex, and it's important to approach them with sensitivity and consideration for both individuals involved. Here are some steps you might consider taking: Open Communication: Continue having open and honest conversations with him about his concerns and feelings. Listen actively to his perspective without judgment and express your own feelings as well. Encourage him to share what specifically worries him about marriage. Give Time: If he's not ready for marriage at the moment, respect his feelings and give him time to sort through his emotions. Pressuring someone into marriage when they're not ready can lead to resentment and problems later on. Address Concerns: Try to understand his reasons for not being ready for marriage. If there are specific concerns he has, work together to find solutions or compromises that might alleviate those concerns. Support and Patience: Let him know that you're there to support him and that you're willing to wait if he needs more time to feel comfortable with the idea of marriage. Personal Growth: Focus on personal growth and self-improvement, both individually and as a couple. Sometimes, people become more ready for marriage when they feel more secure and confident in themselves.Seek Professional Advice: If his hesitations are rooted in deeper emotional issues or anxieties, he might benefit from talking to a therapist or counselor. Couples counseling could also be helpful in addressing any concerns and improving communication between you two. Respect His Decision: Ultimately, you can't force someone into a marriage. It's essential to respect his decision, even if it's not the outcome you were hoping for. Healthy relationships are built on mutual consent and willingness. Evaluate Your Own Feelings: While you have strong feelings for him, also consider your own well-being and happiness. It's important to be in a relationship with someone who is equally committed and ready for marriage. Remember, each person's timeline and readiness for marriage are unique. It's crucial to communicate openly, be patient, and make decisions that are in the best interest of both individuals involved. If he continues to be unsure about marriage, it might be worth evaluating whether the relationship is meeting both of your needs and expectations.

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Hi Thanks for reaching out. You saw an alliance and you like him. He was in a relationship before and he is not ready for marriage. You like this particular guy only and it is okay. You want to explore this alliance. It is necessary to know what you like about this guy. You feel he is not clear about whether he wants to marry or not. You feel he could be afraid of commitment. You are wondering how to make him agree to marry you. It is necessary to know when you want to get married. It is necessary to know what are you looking for in a relationship. Are you looking to date someone, see how it goes and then settle down? It is also necessary to know if you are stressed about him not committing to marriage. Getting married is a big decision and if you both like each other you can think of taking it slow and not rush into anything. If he is afraid of commitment don’t put too much pressure on him and give him space. It will be good if you and he take time to get to know each other well. Getting married is a big decision, taking things slow will help both of you feel calm. The past relationship might be a trigger to have commitment issues. Consult a psychologist and explain about your relationship with him and your plans of getting married. Try to not stress too much. A psychologist will help you manage pre-marital anxiety.

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Hello, You are clear in your decisions and choice about your selected person and the alliance. However, marriage is a life time commitment from two people.Since the other person is facing some blockages, you can give him his space and required support. Pre-marital counseling can be sought by mutual consent. It would be great if you can communicate and be more open about the choices that you both can consider. As giving in to pressure or entering an alliance half heartedly may give you undesirable after effects. Hence a pause for sometime, patience and perseverance with gradual conversations to seek the cause of such resistance can help the situation. Beyond liking, take time to understand the person better for a balanced and important important desision. Likewise things will work out. You can connect for further counseling. Happy Healthy Living!

Hi,You can request him to consult a psychologist for marriage counseling.

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Hi dear, You both need to talk to a psychologist to have counseling sessions as it will clear all your doubts. Also, it will help him in accepting that is good for you both. It will clear inner conflicts that he is going through right now. Connect online for proper guidance.

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Hey, Good day He might still have thoughts of his past relationships that may trigger him to take such huge decisions as marriage. Maybe he might have fear of losing people. That's why he is not able to accept the situation

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You both can seek a professional support by a Pre-Marriage Counselling session.. Maybe, he might get some clarity and accordingly you both can decide your future..

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