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My parents worked so hard to make sure that I should have good education and job, finally I got and bought a house before marriage, and my mother feels that is my mother's house, after marriage my wife feels that is her house, finally both argued for my house, and both doesn't want to stay in same house.
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You have bought a house and you feel stressed because your mother and wife think differently. You feel frustrated when you have to deal with your mother and wife having a different opinion. To feel better consult a psychologist and talk about what you are going through. Do not worry counseling sessions will help you feel better. You will require family counseling.
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Contact me for counseling session. Along with counseling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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Ms. Smriti
Counselling Psychologist
15 yrs exp
Bangalore
Go for marital counseling. It will help you resolve inner feelings.connect for counseling session
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
My suggestion is for you both as husband and wife go for a Marriage Counselling..
Both of you need to understand the concept of marriage and bei g together..
Consult a Marriage/Relationship Counselor..
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Mr. Sandeep Kumar
Psychologist
12 yrs exp
Chandigarh
Dear beloved,
It's really stressful to take decision because both person feeling are equally important to you.
First thing is work on your emotional stability of mind, then take help of your counselor to learning new resources to deal the situation.
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connect with mental health care professional ASAP
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Ms. Merlyn M Fernandes
Counselling Psychologist
16 yrs exp
South Goa
Hi, conflicts do occur when people with different mindsets or personalities are put together either at workplace or at home. Your mom and wife both seem to have had some sort of misunderstanding that has been building up because of lack of heart-to-heart communication. This can be resolved through family counseling. When they both see that the other means well and not harm, they will begin to trust each other.
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Seek family counseling.
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Allowing your wife and mother a safe space to vent out during counseling can be very therapeutic individually and for their relationship with each other.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... As per law your house belongs to you as long as you are alive and afterwards it belongs to your immediate family including your wife and dependent parents, and afterwards your kids, if any. This may change only when you prepare a legal 'Will' stating your heirs clearly.
Now, as per your emotional struggle, I would say it is a typical Indian middle class man's struggle. The story you are told and raised with holds no ground in the test of time.
This is a cyclic process. It happens in every generation. When we are young we believe we are doing the right thing to make space for ourselves and the family we have raised. But later when we reach that age we realize what we did wrong and why our parents behaved the way they do.
A simple solution to this problem is that you either rent or buy one more house/flat nearby in your budget now or maybe some time later and then decide to move your family or your parents to the other house.
Also, you can take help of your parents financially to build this new house. That way you can have a joint property with your parents and you can prepare a 'Will' of transferring ownership to your parents if you are afraid of your wife interfering with their rights to ownership.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Family Therapy or Individual Therapy is required.
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