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There has been times when I get argument with my mother and she talks in a very out of topic manner that I am sensitive. I did this thing 10 years back. Like never understand the time of talk. And it escalates into argument. Like today morning I was speaking to her and told her that she shouldn't have told my boyfriend that I am lazy person because now he taunts me. She said she didn't said anything like that. I said my boyfriend made me listen phone recording on my insist. Instead of understanding that she should respond why she said that she in a very weird face said oh now your boyfriend plans to records my talks on phone. I got so pissed off. I came in my ro and shut my door. I got so angry that I throw my bottle in anger in my room in frustration and my brother recorded it. And shown my relatives. How far all if this is ok?
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consult any psychologist for the same and discuss personally
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Hello,
I completely understand where you are coming from. Something the simple communication takes a toll on mind. Each person has a specific way to talking and understanding other's language. Try talking to your mom in her kind of language that she understands. You might face difficult initially.
Secondly, you aren't ment to cry over all the matter. Be selective and choose wise.
Third, try your ways to creating distraction.
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Talk your mind and heart out to a Counselor. Family therapy might help.
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You are feeling betrayed by your blood. And you feel bullied and humiliated by them in front of everyone else. Which is making you act out (the inner child is scared as the primary caretaker are being insensitive ).
And you alone won't be able to deal with this. You gotta stand on your feet and connect with your family. It's a 2 way street.
Build relation with your father.
And seek a professional support.
Remember the movie dear zindagi .
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Most of the time and most of us do not want to hear "NO" most of us do not want to hear any "Justifications or Excuses" from any body..
That causes in us a lot of Irritation and we loose our control in our communication too..
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Try to fix an appointment with a psychological Counselor a d discuss and share your feelings with them..
We can listen to you and guide you appropriately..
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
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7 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hello dear
I can understand what you are going through. It might be getting so tough for you to keep this up all together. You might be feeling as if no one understands you and everyone just wants to proof their points.
Don't worry, consult a good therapist or a psychologist as soon as possible.
You can also contact me and I will help you. Let's discuss your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solutions.
Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!!
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