I suffer from inferiority complex this is a hindrance for me in many ways am not able to progress, to begin with i am not that bad at studies but my habit of postponding things has become a habit and am not able to comm out of it , am giving my bank exams but struggling to succeed because of this, to add to this people around me compare me to my twin sister... we went through t leg lenghthening at age of 3 ever since my legs have lost strength and i walk slow and my walking style is not normal i was not taking this seriously when i was young but now as i grow old am ashamed of this and even afraid please help me come out of my complex worst part is now that my sister had got a job its very difficult for me to face her and the people around but my parents struggle between both of us. we did not grow up to be affectionate twin right from child hood she puts me down and all those memories keep me from loving her please suggest a measure
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Hi, you be cool and do your job or put maximum effort of your limit and don't try to postpone the things which will cause pressure on you ,just finish of the task in your hand and relax don't worry about the result, if put maximum effort which is possible for you then nothing to worry or not feel guilt. Just wait for your turn ,definitely it will come if you effort. don't worry about the things ,for which you are not responsible. Don't think of people what they talk or think about you and never compare yourself with others bcz you are only you others can't become you or vice versa . Just do your work, things will automatically follow you.
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