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Me and my gf did our first and last Intercourse on 24th December 2025 using condom on 3rd day of menstrual cycle. I was extremely tensed about this incident what if she gets pregnant. So I waited for 4 Bleedings ( till April ). Then I decided to meet her on 2nd may to check her belly and also decided not to indulge in any kind of penetrative intercourse as I was already tensed. So we decided only to do foreplay stuffs like mutual masturbation by hand( no one of us inserted finger into the vagina and we made sure hands were cleaned),oral sex and nothing else. *There was no genital- genital rubbing like my penis touching her vulva or her anus nothing like that*. Even after doing no intercourse and no genital-genital rubbing, I am taking tension about pregnancy. She already got Bleeding on 6th may then on 10th june then on 7th July then on 7th August. Each Bleeding were of 4 days and took 10 xl pads. I also asked her to do urine pregnancy test on 6th june, 9th june and both were negative.
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With no penetrative intercourse or genital contact and two negative urine tests, pregnancy is highly unlikely here, and your regular bleeding since is a reassuring sign too.
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If you want full reassurance, a home pregnancy test or a gynaecologist visit can confirm this anytime.
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This worry sounds bigger than the actual risk, talking to a counsellor may help more than another test.
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No need to worry
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You need to consult psychiatrist
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If you can get so much tensed up after one episode of intimacy it is better that you should avoid any situation where you are alone with any girl. You should wait for your marriage and after that only you should have intimacy with your wife.  Otherwise you will be consulting with a Psychiatrist every now and then and also make your girlfriend a Psychiatric wreck.
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She’s not pregnant don’t worry
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Pls connect for online consultation and advice
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Why to take so much stress??
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get awareness of fertile period to avoid such tension
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Get little education regarding fertility and conception.
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No chance of pregnancy, dont stress.
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