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Hello doc I married in 2021 and my sister married recently in 2023 but my sister's husband always has a curiosity about our sexual life she always asks my wife how our marriage life is going, what poses we do during sex how it feels etc
Can u tell me what is going on .
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Sorry to hear about this incursion into your privacy.
While the reasons many be many and one cannot know for sure what it is, one possible reason could be that he probably is looking up to u to find out how he can improvise his own sex life. But as I said one can’t be sure.
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Don’t discuss your personal life with him if u don’t want it.
Show disdain when he asks you such questions again
Or if possible tell him directly that this is too personal so he must refrain from asking.
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Mr. Sandeep Kumar
Psychologist
14 yrs exp
Chandigarh
Hi dear concerned, just have a conversation with your brother in law directly and remain relaxed and non judgemental so that you can understand his intentions and patterns of behaviour.
There could be lots of things. With a friendly manner explore the hidden area and address it with maturity.
You can consult our mental health care professional if any confusion
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Mr. Vijay Kumar
Counselling Psychologist
30 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
While curiosity about how other people have / enjoy sex may be an extended version of sexual fantasies, in today's world of the Internet, it is not necessary to satisfy that curiosity from just one person who is closely connected in the family. You may advise your wife to discourage such discussions from this particular person.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Let your wife know her limits and keep herself away from him..
If it is disturbing for your wife too, I suggest her not to keep in touch with him unnecessarily..
For a detailed discussion and understanding, you can connect with me through this app..
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Ms. Smriti
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Tell your wife to maintain boundaries .confront your bill when next time you overhear the conversation
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