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I am desperate and i think it is good
I don't have friends. Most of the people in my college don't like me. I genuinely have liked many people whom I didn't like before just because I want friends. So i approach everyone I like genuinely and to find someone who likes me. And i tried this in college and people don't like me more.  I also approached a lot of girls who I was attracted to and they gossiped about me as desperate and pervert. I approached everyone because I got a lot of rejections, everyone didn't like me. I still couldn't find someone who likes me. And there is no more people left to approach in my college. I don't want validation others from about me, i know i am great. i just want someone to talk about my thoughts, meet everyday and talk. I have learned communication skills a lot via books, but i don't want people to like me. Should I approach everyone to find someone who likes me ? If I don't approach everyone, how will I find someone who likes me ? if i will, everyone thinks of me as desperate and needy.
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Hi, It seems you are trying to change others beliefs and trying hard to find it works out.Threre are many distorted beliefs that you have to  change.Should and must, personalisation,mind reading etc.Learning communication skills and assertiveness skills will help you.Consult a psychologist for assessment and counseling sessions
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