I always text or call my friends first when I feel to talk.But they don't do this.They text or call me whenever they have a reason.So what should I do?I feel depressed and whom I choose as my friend they do it.It is me who communicates not them.I feel frustrated.
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You need counselling as to understand your deeper level of emotion that you are facing which your friends are not able to see it....
You may Google my name n book the appointment for the session
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Friendship is a two way Street in the perfect friendship two of you are working hard to give each other most equal amount of attention possible. However there are times when it feels like only one person is making all the efforts to keep it going it seems as well only one is making all the efforts.
YOU MUST KNOW HOW TO HANDLE WITH THIS KIND OF SITUATION.
Some signs of one sided friendship----
# you always text first
# when they do contact you it's because they need something
# it's always about them
# they prefer the company of others
# you have to come to them
IT CAN BE CHALLENGING TO UNDERSTAND WHY ONE SIDED FRIENDSHIPS HAPPEN
You maybe unclear about the dynamics of the friendship. You may suspect that your friend is using you, that's a horrible feeling , for example your friends only talk to you when they need something that makes you feel like you are NOT IMPORTANT.
MAKE NEW FRIENDS.
TALK TO THEM ABOUT IT ASK TO MAKE IT MORE TWO-SIDED.
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SEEK OUT HELP
many people benefit from seeking out counselling when it comes to dealing with one sided friendships it can be hard to let go of someone that you really care about but sometimes it is just the right thing to do on the other hand a counselor can help you figure out how to get your friendship back on the track and how to stay away from one sided relationships in future they can also show you how to cope with your feelings and how people treat you so that it doesn't cause you heartache or any kind of anxieties
Hello dear
I can understand how you feel. You might be feeling ignored or lonely sometimes.
Don't worry, consult a good therapist or a psychologist as soon as possible.
You can also contact me and I will help you towards your recovery. Let's discuss your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solutions.
Take care, stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!!
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