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Habbit of telling lies and forget things
I am not the way people think I am specially the one who loved me and whom I love beyond limits. He thinks that I am a lier and a very clever person he said that he loved me pfor my innocence but its actually nowhere present.he thinks I fooled him by telling continuous lies. Yes I did but unintentionally of hurting him I was very critical about my past I thought what he will. Think of me but in that I lost his trust but now when I promised him that I won't lie I am into forgetting things it's not a normal behavior and he feels no sense in it he thinks I am again fooling him but now situation is out of my hands I don't lie intentionally but it happens itself I forget even the small things I have done or about anything even what I said then it looks as if I lie to him and made him fool but I don't do anything to hurt him intentionally I don't want to loose him he used to love me more than anything at that time but now because of my mistakes and behavior he is going far from me.
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Understand your concern and position. Probably telling lies has become your habit for the reasons best known to you. If notice your writing, you have repeated the same message with varied tone and statement. These fights are very common and consciously need to work on the changes. Past is something which can not be changed and thinking about the past ruins the present and future. So decide...
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Seek professional assistance and make a sincere effort in changing your behavior
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1) Speak limited words with facts. This will help you in reducing the manipulation or lieing. (2) Focus on changing your thought process (3) Be open in your communication
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Hi. Thank you for sharing your concerns. It looks like your partner may not get convinced by what ever you say at present.
What you can do is that you can encourage him to go for a relationship counselor/couple counselor along with you, where you both can address your concerns and the professional can help accordingly.
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In many lovers, telling lies are so common to attract or self-defense. Be tactful rather than lieying. Be polite and think before talk. Self control is important for any body.
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Ms. Rajatha Sarkar
Psychologist
19 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi dear thanks for your approach to us, Yes it is difficult to make other person to understand the situation and reason for your various actions.. but as it is not an intentional may to project yourself better you might have told lie, gradually that might have become habit.
It happens for most of them in maintaining relationships, trust.
Understand your requirements the reason for your behaviour, why is it? How you want the relationship to function. If possible you can communicate with him and make him accept the reasons for your action.
Next Steps
you can take the help of psychologist to deal with situation.
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work ok on your confidence, expectations, changing and improve your thinking, helps to communicate better, have goals. take care.
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Ms. Kavita Sharma (PhD)
Counselling Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Udaipur
Thank you for sharing.I appreciate that you are approaching help from the professionals. I understand what you are going through and how difficult for you to handle all this emotions. Remember one thing," Be with someone who is proud to have you!" I understand during time you are disturb, I suggest you to balance your emotion, try to divert your mind into positivity, Try to connect with your family/relatives or old friends through phone or by video calling to divert your mind, this will help your emotions to overcome your dependency feelings from your partner. Explore new things on phone, If you still finding difficult than please consult with psychologist to help you best, you can also contact me through Practo app.
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Consult with Psychologist.
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Divert your mind to positivity.
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