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I seem to be under achieving in everything I do. Something always gets in the way , that's how I feel. Be it problems at home , or outside, I have been handling 'hot water' (per say) a lot since 5-6 years. I failed in 11th , did it again , passed this time , made efforts to actually do well like u used to , as a student , cleared 12th with 80percent . But then again fell into this loop of problem-solution game , with no growth and wellness. Failed again in final year of graduation, seem to have lost forward momentum in anything I do. Now , I have serious doubts about my life path. Even intelligence / cognitive capabilities seems to be very discouraging. Motivation is present, yet failure follows. What to do ?
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I think you need counseling sessions to improve your perception and strategies to deal with problems.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions effectively.
You need an expert counseling Psychologist.
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Hi,You have mentioned that you cleared 12th with 80 percent with hardwork.Think about your past successes strategies.Make SMART goals.Have trust in your own capabilities.Consult a psychologist for professional help
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Dr. Kavita Bhutani (PhD)
Psychologist
20 yrs exp
Gurgaon
You need to step by step do a swot analysis
Writing your thoughts will help
Baby steps
Short term goals
Buddy partnerships
Fitness goals
All this will help
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
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13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi.... I believe you are experiencing issues from a young age and whenever you are able to cope better with your issues you perform well and whenever you are unable to deal with them you experience a failure. Lot of young adults suffer from similar issues and seek professional help to overcome such predicaments in their lives. I hope there must be some sort of counselling facility available at your college campus. If it is there, do give it a try and take minimum 4-6 months of weekly counselling sessions. If there is no such facility available for your access than you can seek professional help online or offline with any good Psychologists that you believe you will be able to open up freely. Remember, Life/Career is not a 100 meter sprint. It is a Marathon. It doesn't matter who is running ahead in the beginning. What matters is that you are running it at your own pace.
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