mental-health-icon
Frustrated
I'm a breast feeding mother. My baby is 3 months old. I was at my mom's place since delivery. My husband and I actually stay separate. But now I have moved with my in laws and would be staying here for 2 months. The problem is I just can't be myself here. Just when I feel it's right time to feed the baby you have a piece of advice and the list is countless. It's a 1bhk with my husband and brother in law work from home and my mother and father in law. Im just frustrated because I can't take care of my baby the way I was for this three months. They will tell you things which I don't feel right. I'm in the bed room locked all day and night. It just get on my nerves besides I can feed the baby the baby is on lap constantly I can't see this. I told my husband that we will go our place but he seems to not understand why. Don't know if I m unreasonable. But taking care of my baby my way and needing some me time is not unreasonable I think.
100 Views v

Answers (1)

Like the answers? Consult privately with the doctor of your choice

Greetings! There is a change of atmosphere along with you are also witnessing early motherhood, both the things can be quite overwhelming. Adjusting in a new home can be kind of difficult as its not as casual as your parents place. I would suggest take it easy on yourself, do things step by step .  Dont overburden yourself, try to have a healthy relationship with your husband instead of telling him to move out. Plus post delivery, there is a change in mood , the more you let it affect yourself the worse it gets. Dont overthink over small things , try to overlook the new changes you are facing. Focus on your child and yourself.
Next Steps
if problems of irritation persist, you can visit a psychiatrist online.
Answered
Flag this Answer
Flag this answer
Let others know if this answer was helpful
Was this answer helpful?
Disclaimer : The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website.
Disclaimer : The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website.