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your increasing submissive behaviors and desire to be treated as an object may be connected to unresolved feelings of rejection and low self-worth, especially related to the painful experiences you faced with your crushes over the past 10 years. I strongly encourage you to seek support from a qualified psychodynamic therapist, who can help you explore the unconscious patterns driving these behaviors, understand their connection to your past experiences, and develop healthier ways of relating to yourself and others. It’s also important to consult a psychiatrist, especially if these actions are harming you or interfering with your life. You don’t have to face this alone, and compassionate care can help you find balance and healing.

What you describe relates to a submissive sexual preference (fetish) where you find satisfaction in being dominated. Such interests can exist in some people and are not necessarily abnormal if they are consensual, safe, and not interfering with daily life. However, when it starts to feel uncontrollable, linked with past rejections, or causes emotional distress, it may point toward underlying psychological concerns that need attention.

It would be helpful to explore these feelings with a mental health professional in a confidential setting. Counselling can help you understand whether this is simply a preference or connected to deeper issues like rejection trauma, self-esteem difficulties, or compulsive patterns. You may consult with me to work through these thoughts in a safe, non-judgmental way

Try to reflect on whether these behaviors are affecting your relationships, self-image, or mental peace. Avoid situations that put you at risk of harm. Practicing self-compassion, journaling about your emotions, and building healthy social connections can also support better balance.