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Fathers death
Hi mam this is Aishwarya..I love my dad more than anyone in this world suddenly he passed away on Oct 25th..actually next day 26th is my bday..I was shocked bcos he had only fever and cough..he had death due to continuously coughing..I can't come out from this incident .daily mrng my daddy used to call me first and used to visit my home whenever I want to c him.i can't come from this.am taking treatment for infertility.. I don't have baby ..this feelings will affect my treatment .I feel very hard to sleep ..I can't sleep and eat..I want my dad back.. suddenly all had shut within a day..pls restore me from this incident..I told my husband that I want counselling he understood and he told me to fix an appointment pls help me to come out from this ..
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Hi M sorry to hear that... But u need to get back to normalcy Right now u r showing signs of depression I believe you should discuss your concerns in detail with a mental health professional to gain an insight about nature of problem and ways to overcome it through psychotheraputic techniques Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling Connect with me through practo Follow my Facebook page "the Cloud Door" for mental health issues All the best Seek help for early recovery
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All will be fine, don’t worry. It’s a matter of time. Time can only heal you. To guide you through counselling would really be helpful. I am an online counselor. Do get in touch with me through Practo. Visit my Facebook page and my website mentioned on it. Happy to help !
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Dear Aishwarya, Saying goodbye to a parent is one of the hardest things we face in our lives. It is also something that almost everyone goes through. It becomes unbearable when it happens very unexpectedly. For you, it's the previous day of your birthday. I can understand your situation. Losing a parent means a loss of childhood, of innocence, and a part of oneself. No other bond exists like the one with a parent. I would suggest certain things that you should do for your mental health. You must accept the reality of your father's death. You must experience the grieving and emotional pain of the loss. You must adjust to the world in which the deceased is no longer there. You must find ways to memorialize the deceased, and relocate the lost parent within his life in a different way. You are undergoing infertility treatment and you wanted your father to see your baby. He also must be excited to see your baby. Now you have to continue your treatment accepting the reality of your father's demise. Since I have provided counseling to many couples and individuals grappling with infertility, I know the emotional fallout of infertility. You should consult a Psychologist for counselling at the earliest. Counseling brings down your depression and anxiety that often arises from social pressures, bad memories or troubled relationships relating to infertility issues. These sessions work as a soothing therapy on even the most agitated mind feeling suicidal. I am happy to help you if you wish to consult me online.
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