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I have a 8yrs old son.He was naughty in his early age but since last year he have started to behave very weird.He was naughty but was an obedient n well mannered child.But nowadays he argue with us, even if do anything wrong and we try to correct him he doesn't listen to us and in return he shouts at us.He was a very good student but now he hates his studies.He just wants to play around and watch TV. In every matter he does the opposite we ask him to do.We are in a dilemma and just can't understand what to do. Please help me.
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Hi. Behavior modification can help.
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Since the child is not responding to your prompts or guidance, it is recommended that you meet a professional and discuss in detail about the onset, recent changes in environmental triggers, precipitation, causes etc of this issue. I specialize working with kids & teens and use plenty of modalities for kids to open up discuss their emotions, thoughts, feelings etc. I have scheduled the group mindfulness workshop for kids in the age group 4 to 8 yrs on 16th& 17th OCT,2021. I would suggest you to make him join this workshop apart from taking individual therapy for the kid along few mindful Parenting sessions to change your approach as a parent to the sudden change in the behavior of the child. I conduct all these Therapies shared above. You may book an online or an offline appointment with me. Ananya Vohra (Holistic Abode)
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The child must undergo Play Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, CBT etc
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It can be due to some psychological issue. It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated. It can be well treated with homeopathic medication effectively and without any side effects.
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you can contact me through online appointment for further assistance
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Yes for a parent to see their dear child behaving rudely can be tough but understand now the child is growing he is learning few things  from the environment they have their own way if  adapting a situation.he sometimes will project behaviors as in his  family and immediate friend circle.so we have to check how we react among us ,they will do what they see not  what they are told. Firstly he is young and probably with time he will behave appropriately once he is checked by his loved ones respectfully. Secondly a child learns a lot from school but as nowadays children are at home they have limited interaction and learn probably this will be fine once the school reopens. Most importantly don't always scold him for small acts tell him calmly and when he is alone,the child should not feel he is being tagged as naughty so no point improving encourage him positively. Try positive reinforcement.above all stay calm if you feel you is not able handle his behavior consult a professional.
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He is just only 8 years old .You don't worry .Now in Because of COVID children's are in home they not to meet there friends ,not go to anywhere .so children's energy is wasted so they behave like this .I
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Now many of cases is like this types of children .But that is not those fault .
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You no need to worry about your son. Due to this covid situation every child even adults are behaving like this way. Now they are not contact with society, they may be missing their friends. This wll make them loneliness. So parents need to spend time with your child. If it's not happening then the child prefer to watching TV, computer etc.
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introduce some extracurricular activities to your child. Try to engage them, but don't force them.
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Hi... Please don't worry about him. These are very normal phases of growing up. In childhood the change is more overt and as parents we are also very observant about each and every change our kids go through. So first of all just calm down about this change in him. Lots of kids these days (pandemic/lockdown/online classes) are finding it difficult to manage their routine and channelize their energy. Like ourselves they also get frustrated and that frustration may come out in the form of anger, tantrums, or disobedience.
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