Does PMDD worsen the symptoms of BPD?

I am on medication for hormonal imbalance for last 3 months (Primosa) and last month period got skipped. This month my PMSing is extreme. I lost control, I am constantly thinking and planning for suicide. I hurted my parents with words. I feel like I am going crazy and should be sent to asylum. I am in immense guilt for what I did since yesterday. Is there any Gynecologist who is also aware of BPD condition. My psychiatrist think that I might have PMDD. I got very angry when people say they had worse or you don't need meds for mental health. I feel invalidated. If that's the case one should also advice malari,typhoid patient to exervise and not taking meds. I am looking for a Gynecologist with knowledge of mental health issues.