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Hi doctor, I'm mom of 3 months old kid. I've misunderstanding with my mother in law. My spouse always favour her. It's being difficult for me to face. I tried controlling my feelings most of the time I couldn't. I always share how I feel and he always tells I'm wrong. It's been two years since we're married from then till now I and my husband fought for his mom and sister's reason. Now I feel liking giving up my life, I've tried a lot to keep things right but each time they take revenge on me. She Talks to my husband emotionally and every time I've to give up my thoughts. They're money minded expect a lot from us but we should expect anything. I loots money from my husband and gift her daughter (they're well settled). She abuses me from her words and she pretend in front my husband. I'm sick of all these, I feel like running away from all these and end my life here if I do so who'll take care of my little one. Please help me. Thanks in advance.
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Hello, Marriage is not about your relationship with your spouse only. It is also about your relationship with your spouse's family of origin. And to some extent it is also about relationship between your's and your spouse's families of origin. So it is very important that you and your spouse play your respective roles in your families. For this you need help from your spouse to create the right image of yours in the mind of your mother in law. And when your spouse fails to play your roles in creating these relationships, it impacts the marriage. Also it is your role as a couple to establish identity of a new sub-family in your larger family to get a sense of autonomy which is very much needed else this starts choking the marriage. In case your partner complaints about issues because of your parents you need to know your role well. Since you are seeking help, you have a very fair chance to start right from now as well. Whatever has happened can still be done right. We can help both of you understand deeper realities and ways to create the right environment in your homes. It is possible. And when both of you become wise, the right tomorrow will certainly become a reality. We recommend that you must speak to our expert psychologists and share your situation briefly over the phone. Doing so, you will get to know the complete step by step process on how we will go about solving your specific concern. And then you can take your own time to decide. We assure you with utmost care during this phone talk and at all the times ahead. We assure that utmost confidentiality will be maintained. You can call us to fix the appointment or get more information as needed by you. We will surely help bring positivity in your life. Subscribe to YOUTUBE CHANNEL – KAMAL KHURANA  (300 PLUS VIDEOS). You can type in Youtube “in-laws kamal khurana”. You can also purchase our book “It’s Ok by Kamal Khurana published by Notion Press”. This book is available at Notion Press. Also you can go to our website www.kamalkhurana.com. The book is available at this site. You can also watch our videos at Youtube. The channel name is KAMAL KHURANA. There are 300 plus videos on the channel and it can help you understand   PHONE COUNSELLING ALSO AVAILABLE   God Bless You.   Thanks and Regards, Kamal Khurana  (Psychologist)  
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