I got married in Feb and I am facing pain and difficulty in vaginal penetration due to which me and my husband are not able to consummate our marriage till now. We have not been able to achieve complete penetration and my husband seem drawn away and he does not try to initiate any physical advancements 90% of the time even after reiterating that I am ready to bear the pain but we will have to try at regular intervals in order to do that but he is mostly tired due to his job schedule and additional financial responsibilities of his parents on him. I am not sure whether he is afraid to initiate as whenever we try I am mostly enduring pain or is this his own problems that are bothering him or both.
I have to admit the problem stated is bothering me way too much now and I can't seem to get a solution.
Humbly request your help pls.
Thanks.
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It is may be due to performance anxiety..you both husband & wife need proper sexual counseling and therapy..please visit to nearby gynaecologist/sexologist so that he/she can help you accordingly
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It appears that u might be suffering from vaginismus, where due to involuntary constriction of pelvic muscle, and pain, penetration fails. It's not uncommon, and it's a a female factor cause of unconsumatted marriage. In such cases due to repeated failure, husband also developed secondary ED. U need counseling as well as self regular vaginal dilatation. It may take some time, for sufficient vaginal dilatation. After this, ur husband need, supportive treatment for Seco. ED. Usually problem resolve with proper treatment. From which place u belong? Consult me personally for proper referal.
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