Depression and insomnia. Ended bad too.

Hey, I cN totally get what u feel right now. It may b so dat yes relationships suck but it's not the end of journey called life. Ur choice was just as natural at dat moment when u got into a relationship as it was when u came out of them. With the given set of thoughts in dat particular moment all of us wud have made same choices.. Believe me.... Life may seem unfair in such moments but as the saying goes... U can learn swimming without getting wet.... So I order to find the right person all of us have to go through this training of learning what to avoid and improve as a person who makes choices. It's easier to suggest but den what wud u tell a friend of urs who suppose, wud be in exactly similar situation? Believe this dat no other person in this world is qualified enough to solve the problems u have becos u know them better den anyone. It's not easy but yes it is doable and above all what other options do we have but to move on other more important aspects of life den relationship. I m sure u don't want to be defined by whom u r related to. U can consult a psychiatrist and get psychotherapy in order to work upon ur thought process. It's a way of mending ur ways and coping strategies dat have been not very useful. I hope this helps u but feel free to consult further. Take care.