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I have liked a boy because i saw him following me everywhere. So i decided to tell him i love him too , i said but then i realised he never followed me. I actually don't know why i said like that to him...i don't know from where the courage comes without any thinking i said to him like that. After that  Suddenly my feelings for him changed but he likes me from now on and the problem is i started feeling opposite. I have no feelings for him... although i communicate and made him understand my feelings changed. I feel so guilty and ashamed because i feel like i am not the person who told that. I don't know how i managed to say to him like that...its feel like someone entered body and told him like that.
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Hi Thanks for reaching out. You told a boy you like him, and you realized he never followed you. It is okay to like someone, it is a part of being human. Don't feel guilty about liking someone. If the situation of you telling him, you like him is making you feel anxious consult a psychologist for counselling sessions.
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It sounds like you're going through a complex emotional experience. It's not uncommon for feelings to change over time, and sometimes our initial reactions or decisions might not align with how we truly feel. It's important to remember that feelings are fluid, and it's okay for them to evolve or shift. Feeling guilty and ashamed is a natural reaction, but it's important to give yourself some understanding and forgiveness. We all make choices that we might regret later on, but these experiences can be opportunities for growth and self-discovery. In terms of your situation with the boy, communication is key. You've already taken steps to communicate your changed feelings to him, which is an important step in being honest and respectful. It's better to be upfront about your feelings rather than leading him on or pretending to feel something you don't. If you find that your feelings for him have truly changed and you're no longer interested, it's important to be clear with him and allow both of you to move forward. It might be uncomfortable in the short term, but in the long run, it's better for both parties involved. Remember that you're not alone in experiencing shifts in emotions or making decisions that might not align with your true feelings. It's all part of the complex human experience, and growth often comes from these kinds of situations. If you're struggling to process your emotions, consider talking to a friend, family member, or even a professional counselor who can provide support and guidance.
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Consult a Counselling Psychologist. CBT along with Interpersonal Guidance and Counselling is required.
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Hi, Consult with a psychologist
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Hi dear, You need counseling sessions with a psychologist. It will help you deal with inner conflicts. Connect for proper guidance.
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Hello there. Firstly, thank you for reaching out. And secondly, please don’t punish yourself for something that has been done and cannot be changed, rather focus on eliminating the negativity you are experiencing nowadays due to such past events. It’s important that you consult a psychologist because they can understand your situation and provide the support and teach you the coping skills that are required. Take care
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Connect with psychologist to discuss in detail about it
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