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Autistic nonverbal son masturbating
I have a 16 year son who is autistic and non verbal. He does not follow instructions much. He is under going puberty stage and has now started getting erections..
How do I explain what is good and bad for him and guide him appropriately at this stage.
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Children with autism can preferably be taught about acceptable behaviour through role play/games/visual aids.
Repetition is the key for consistent changes.
I understand it must be difficult to maintain patience in such situation, however, you can take help through parents support groups available online or occupational therapists.
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I totally understand what you've been going through. Getting erections is normal in puberty. Though with patience and by showing what is good and what is bad can be beneficial for him. And i would suggest taking the help of a professional if you can.
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Hi .During puberty, it is completely normal for a 16-year-old autistic adolescent, even if nonverbal, to experience erections and increased body awareness. The focus should not be on stopping the behavior but on gently and consistently teaching clear rules about private body parts and private spaces using simple language, visual supports, and repetition. Concepts like “private parts stay covered” and “if your body feels excited, go to your bedroom or bathroom” should be taught calmly without shaming or punishment. It is equally important to teach basic body safety rules — that no one is allowed to touch his private parts except a caregiver for hygiene or a doctor with a parent present — to protect him from vulnerability. If you notice frequent public touching, distress, sudden behavior changes, or if you need help creating a structured behavioral plan, please consult me for a personalized assessment and guidance.
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Hi there. I can understand it's a difficult situation for any parent. We are so used to not discussing anything about sex and sexuality to our children. This sudden behaviour must have put you in a difficult situation. You have to teach him the difference between behaviors appropriate in private and public space. Be clear, calm and repeat yourself often. Use step by step instructions. Use pictures, easy to understand language. Be honest with him. You need to understand this fact that sexual exploration is very normal in any child in this age. Also teach safety tips, about good touch and bad touch. Use role playing with a person of the same gender and then opposite gender. For example.. hugging parents or frnds is okay. But touching someone's private parts is not. Enact it. Consistency is the key. Can get in touch with an occupational therapist for the same.
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