Hello doctor,
It has been 7 years of married life. Having two kids. Whenever my husband comes to talk with me he just starts to cuddle and touch me... Even if it's 5 mins or 30 mins he continuously doing. Without touching he never talks to me casually. Everyday and everytime he comes to me to talk he just wanted to touch and talk. Even if I say I feel not comfort all the time he says to tolerate him. He never understands my feelings or opinions.
I wanted him to talk with love but he never gets my words. I m not feeling any love Or respect wen he comes to me. Just getting irritating wenever he comes. He never changing his habit. I m feeling so much stress becoz of this. I couldn't share this to my parents. I don't have sibling to share also. Please help to get rid from this anxiety.
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It can be a fear of touch with anxiety issues which might hamper your marriage life.
It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated.
You both need counseling sessions. Seek help from an expert counseling psychologist.
Your concern can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine if required.
You can go for a counseling psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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Hi, There seems to be an issue with your husband' s understanding of showing affection and intimacy. There is no quick fix to this but both of you seeking counseling may help. If he doesn't get ready to come as may not see it as a problem you can approach a clinical psychologist learning ways in handle the problem at home.
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speak to your husband or someone whose advice he would take, especially from his family.
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consultant a professional at the earliest if the issue is not resolved.
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a challenging situation. It's important to prioritize your feelings and communicate openly with your husband about your boundaries. Let him know how his actions are impacting you and that you need conversations that involve emotional connection and understanding. Seeking couples therapy could be beneficial to facilitate constructive communication and address the underlying issues.
There are different love languages people show love through. If physical touch bothers you we need to explore the possibilities which are causing anxiety.
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