I counter if someone like unknown person start arguing with me for some reason like in market ,road or sometime while I drive, if someone driving harsh and I got safe by him ,if I go and tell him why ur driving so harsh I got safe, instead of telling me sorry he also start arguing, what should I do,? Because I know I can beat him but I don't want to spoil my life by bitting anyone ,did I am doing right thing , but my mind say why u listen so much u can beat him and I think about them very much.
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It’s good that you recognize your anger and impulse to retaliate, but also that you don’t want to ruin your life over a moment of conflict. Your reaction—standing up for yourself when you feel wronged—is understandable, but the real issue is that you continue to think about these situations long after they happen, which affects your peace of mind.
Instead of focusing on whether you could have beaten them, shift your mindset to emotional control and self-discipline—the true signs of strength. You don’t need to prove yourself in every argument, especially with strangers who won’t change their behavior no matter how much you confront them. The best approach is to assess whether the argument is worth your energy—most of the time, walking away keeps your power intact while engaging only fuels unnecessary stress. Practicing deep breathing, controlled responses, and learning to let go of these incidents will help you move on faster.
Therapy can help you develop better emotional regulation techniques and reduce overthinking about such situations. If you want to take online therapy sessions, connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five. I can help you work through anger management and impulse control strategies.
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Don’t beat him, accidentally if he dies, you will be in jail for a long time. Don’t underestimate others by looks too, if they hit back you might die too. Learn anger control methods. In India majority don’t follow traffic discipline so learn to live in the society safely. If there is a gross violation report to traffic police.
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