Hi During session with both of you we'll be focusing on 1. Validation process to accept each current moment as perfect and beyond expectation 2. Collaboration process

It seems to be relationship induced stress. It needs to be addressed asap otherwise it may get complicated. It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine if required. You need an expert psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.

We understand your concern and we suggest you to try to connect or communicate with your husband and make him realise your concern Don't forget communication is the most important key in a  relationship

Hi, Consult a psychologist for marriage counseling.

Connect  for couple counseling

This must be a distressing situation for you. You and your husband can start marriage counselling, it can be extremely beneficial as both of you will feel heard and understood in a safe environment. It will also help you both understand each other’s needs and desires.

Hello, You are feeling lost and seek support in the current situation of your life. The relationship is between two people and how they want to take it forward. Everybody else can give thier suggestions, advice and insights. Eventually it is you and your partner who can change things for better. A clear communication with your partner can help. You can express yourself and explain your side while trying to understand his situation. Expecting people to behave in a certain manner can be disappointing. Accepting things and working towards solutions can help. You both can seek counseling as a couple to manage the future of your relationship better. Connect for further professional guidance. Happy Healthy Living!

Hi.. The solution in such cases depends on the concerned person's willingness to change their own approach and behaviour because that is what is actually in their control. We don't control how other people think or behave. How much control do we have on our own thoughts & behaviour? So just think how can we control other person's thinking or behaviour? Individual Counselling may help you understand your own priorities, thoughts, & emotions better. Which in-turn will help you deal with this situation more effectively. If your husband is willing, Couple Therapy or Marital Counselling will work best, but both of you must mutually agree on taking therapy from a Psychologist/Counsellor. Choosing a mutually accepted professional is a must for Couple Therapy/ Marital Counselling. Remember, there are no perfect partners or perfect marriages. It is the efforts and willingness to take joint responsibility that keeps a relationship/marriage alive and functioning.

I would suggest you fix up a couple-counselling session, along with your husband, with an experienced psychologist. Going by my experience in some of the cases of similar nature that I had dealt with, you may find it difficult to get convinced yourself of the need for such sessions and also to convince your husband on the same. Yet, if you have such a session, you and your husband are likely to get a lot of insight into the situations that both of you are in and the ways you can deal with them to obtain a win-win outcome. This has to happen from you and your husband as a couple, without any personalised search for answers to questions like "who between both of us is right?".