To answer your diagnostic question directly: Yes, your symptoms align classicly with Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD) / Social Phobia.
What you are describing—a long-standing fear of negative evaluation that triggers severe autonomic arousal (fast heartbeat, tremors, GI distress, cognitive "freezing" or mind going blank) around peers, authority figures, or during performance situations—is the clinical hallmark of social anxiety. The fact that these symptoms vanish when you are alone or with trusted family/friends further confirms that this is driven by social threat evaluation, rather than a generalized anxiety or physical medical condition.
Regarding treatment: Both Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and pharmacotherapy are evidence-based, highly effective first-line interventions for Social Anxiety Disorder, and using them together often yields the best outcomes.
Next Steps
Consult a Psychiatrist for Comprehensive Clinical Assessment: Schedule an evaluation with a psychiatrist to confirm the diagnosis and discuss medical management options:
SSRIs / SNRIs (First-Line Daily Medication): Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (such as Escitalopram, Sertraline, or Paroxetine) help regulate serotonin signaling, lowering overall baseline anxiety and autonomic reactivity over time.
Beta-Blockers (Performance Support): Short-acting beta-blockers (like Propranolol) taken on an "as-needed" basis before high-stress social events (interviews, presentations) block peripheral adrenaline, preventing tremors, racing heart, and sweating.
Initiate Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Work with a licensed clinical psychologist on CBT tailored for social anxiety. Therapy focuses on:
Cognitive Restructuring: Identifying and challenging automatic catastrophic thoughts (e.g., "I will embarrass myself" or "They will judge me").
Graded Exposure Therapy: Gradually and safely placing yourself in social situations to retrain your brain's threat response and break the cycle of avoidance.
Rule Out Physical Co-factors: Ask your doctor to check basic laboratory parameters (such as
thyroid function tests and
Vitamin B12 levels) to ensure no underlying physical issues are compounding your physical anxiety symptoms.
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Health Tips
Avoidance is the engine that keeps social anxiety alive. Taking a vehicle to avoid walking past neighbors or skipping events provides immediate short-term relief, but it signals to your brain that the social situation was genuinely dangerous, reinforcing the anxiety response for the future.
Practice "Grounding" During Mind-Blanking Moments: When your mind goes blank in conversations, focus on physical grounding: press your feet firmly onto the floor, focus on the sensation of air entering your nostrils, and allow yourself a 3-second pause to breathe out before speaking.
Set Small, Daily Exposure Goals: Start with micro-steps—such as making eye contact and saying a brief "hello" to one shopkeeper or neighbor each day—to build confidence before tackling larger social settings.