It's good U opted for help from a Mental health professional. As I read ur problem's, I m of the opinion that First we have to c the past issues and need to address them , and 2nd impt thing z only panic attack z not the issue in ur case, as that can't be the reason for divorce, we hv to focus on undelying Psychopathology and other related personality issues which can lead a person towards divorce.... So My opinion to u z to book an appointment with me, so that we can try to resolve the all issues collectively.....
Next Steps
consult mental health professional as soon as possible
Health Tips
just try to control on ur anger and do relaxation exercise in order to decrease ur anxiety level