Hi... Please consult another professional on this. Did the current professionals provided any particular diagnosis (ADHD or)? If so please mention it in your query. Medicines are only prescribed by a Psychiatrist. If that's the case, do follow medical advice or take a second opinion by another Psychiatrist who specializes in such issue among children. Typically, unless it is very severe, medications use is avoided in general and also for young children. Your concerns about it's side effects (dependence, reoccurence) are genuine and can only be ruled out after proper examination of the case.
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Consult a Psychiatrist for Medications side effects.
Consult a Psychologist for Counselling.
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