Hi... People make choices in life based on what matters to them the most. If your parents are a priority to you, you must communicate it to your partner that you cannot go against them. But if this girl is a priority to you than communicate it very clearly to your parents that you are going marry her irrespective of anything. Once they know your clear choice, they will be in a better position to make their own. And be rest assured, no one is going to die in this situation. Neither you, nor your parents, and probably not even your partner. This is a conflict of interest in a web of relationships. Everyone is trying to exercise their will to preserve their interests. No one is foolish enough to loose their lives over it. People who are that intense do not give warnings. They just do it. Based on your above description, I don't think you are going to marry this girl you loved. Instead you are most likely to give-in to your parents demands and make a compromise. I am being very straight here because I know how important it is to listen to clear words in such situations. I only suggest you to make a decision and communicate is very clearly to both parties. Your lack of decision making will only enhance this conflict.
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