Love is good but difficult 2 take action

2022-05-14 08:24:04
When my GF loves me I become selfish when she ignores me I become unselfish what's my problem.. Love is not saying but doing I know..
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Hi, I am sorry you are feeling this way. It’s good to be curious about our own behaviours. All of us have different attachment styles and it looks like your attachment style would be a mix of anxious and avoidant attachment styles. Both these attachment styles come under insecure attachment styles and will need to be worked upon in a safe space so that the associated emotions can be brought up and released and once that is done we will slowly be able to move into a secure attachment style. Stay curious. You’re doing fine.
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Book a session with me and we will work on this to ensure you are attaching securely with your partner. Love and healing ❤️‍

Answered2022-06-11 12:41:52

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work with Acceptance. Enjoy every moment

Answered2022-05-19 08:19:18

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Seek counseling sessions to correct your perception.
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Answered2022-05-19 07:45:58

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Hi Enjoy the relationship and don’t feel stressed. Try to work on feeling calm. A psychologist will help you with stress management techniques to feel calm.
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Contact me for counselling session. Along with counseling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.

Answered2022-05-16 09:52:52

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Hi, Enjoy your love- hate relationship, just remember don't make life a joke. Rest learn with experiences. If you really want to live a conscious life you can as directly through practo online consultation services.

Answered2022-05-16 03:52:46

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You need clear perspective in life.consult with a professional Counselor

Answered2022-05-14 12:51:57

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Hi Let's understand this, please consult at Practo
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Answered2022-05-14 09:16:55

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Hello there I can understand what you are feeling. Just enjoy the relationship and give some time and space. Don't worry, consult a professional counsellor or a therapist as soon as possible You can also contact me and I will try to help you in this situation. Let's discuss about your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solutions. Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!

Answered2022-05-16 13:03:06

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Be aware of the difference between falling in love and staying in love. While there are many complicated feelings associated with falling in love with someone, it is usually a very passive and emotional experience. But staying in love can be incredibly difficult and requires a more active and involved approach to the relationship.plz connect with me through practo consult to resolve a inner conflict going in your mind
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Answered2022-05-14 11:05:42

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Hi... Do you think you are acting out of your insecurities rather being driven from what you really want? If that is the case you need to work on your own self-esteem more than this relationship. To an extent it is fine to become little complacent when things appear under control and being worried when they don't. But in a relationship we are supposed to create something which is inclusive and mutually satisfying. Not something which is exploitative or toxic. Not something based on fears, but something based on mutual desires and goals.
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Answered2022-05-14 09:25:50

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