Hi... Please speak to your husband about this. Men tend to casually comment about looks without considering how the other person may take it. As society doesn't condition them to be great with their looks, but when it comes to manhood (in terms of strength, power, money, sex) they are also equally sensitive. On the other hand the same society conditions a woman very specifically upon her beauty, motherhood, chastity, etc. This again is more a patriarchal mindset which needs to change from both ends.
Next Steps
Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required.
Health Tips
Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Senior Psychologist
Cell: Nine Six Seven One Three Zero Three One Three Four (whatsapp)
Website:https://gunjanmaithil.wixsite.com/therapy
App: http://wix.to/fECHB08?ref=cll