Your mother's constant self-talk and repeated focus on past issues suggest she may be carrying unresolved stress and emotional burden. While her memory and awareness are intact, the restlessness, headaches, and irritability show that this is affecting her well-being and daily peace.

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It seems to be post traumatic psychological changes due to past experiences. It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated. It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects. It needs to be treated in a holistic approach for complete recovery. Homeopathic medicine would be a good solution for your mother as it would be safe for her at this elderly age. You need an expert psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.

I hear your concern—it sounds like your mother is often talking to herself and repeatedly bringing up past family issues. That can feel worrying and emotionally draining for you. A few things to consider: 1. Possible reasons this happens: Stress or loneliness: Sometimes, people talk to themselves as a way of coping. Unresolved feelings: If she had painful experiences in the past, revisiting them verbally might be her way of processing. Mental health conditions: Anxiety, depression, or trauma can cause someone to ruminate (get stuck on past events). Cognitive changes: In older adults, memory issues or early dementia can sometimes show up as repetitive speech or fixation on old topics.

Hello, Your mother’s constant talking may be a sign of loneliness, stress, or anxiety even if her memory is fine. Try listening and gently engaging her in activities. A doctor or psychologist can check for underlying issues and give support.

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Hi, It sounds like your mother has a tendency to talk to herself frequently, often discussing past family matters and small issues in a repetitive manner. This behavior may stem from a need for emotional expression or a way to process her thoughts and feelings. While she appears mentally alert, with good memory and awareness, her constant talking and focus on past events might be her way of seeking comfort or connection. The restlessness and headaches she experiences could be related to her mental or emotional state, possibly due to feeling lonely or needing someone to listen. When others try to encourage her to move on or forget these thoughts, she becomes irritable or angry, which suggests she might find it difficult to detach from these thoughts on her own. It could be helpful for her to speak with a mental health professional who can understand these behaviors better, explore underlying emotions, and suggest ways to manage her feelings more comfortably.

It seems she is carrying some emotional pain, and giving her a safe outlet plus professional support may really help her.

Hi she remembers things clearly and functions well otherwise, this is not dementia or major memory decline. Instead, it could be related to overthinking, rumination, or anxiety. When family members tell her to “forget it,” she probably feels dismissed, which makes her angry. What usually helps in such cases is not suppressing her talk, but channeling it differently like structured conversations, journaling, relaxation exercises, or involving her in engaging activities so her mind is not looping all the time. If this pattern is increasing, you may consider gently suggesting a session with a psychologist, as CBT techniques can help her reduce repetitive thinking and learn healthier outlets.

Hi, From what you’ve shared, it sounds like your mother is mentally alert but emotionally burdened with unresolved thoughts and memories. Sometimes, repeatedly talking about past events is not about memory loss, but a way of releasing inner stress, loneliness, or overthinking. When others ask her to “forget,” she may feel unheard, which can naturally make her upset. Instead of stopping her, try giving her a safe space to express herself. Setting aside a fixed “sharing time” daily where she can talk, journal, or even record her thoughts may reduce the constant repetition. Encouraging relaxing activities (gentle walks, music, prayers, or hobbies she enjoys) can also help channel her energy in a healthier way.