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Alchohol Deaddiction
My husband drinks almost daily and this problem is affecting me and my mind to a great extent.I want him to get rid of alchohol as it would increase risk of diseases in future and kids might also get affected.He always promises to leave it next day but tomorrow never comes.Please help
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It seems to be SAD. It is a type of disorder.
It needs to be treated in a holistic approach for complete recovery otherwise it may get complicated.
It can be treated well with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively.
You need an expert psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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Thanks for reaching out. How long has it been since your husband has a drinking problem? How many drinks does he have on a daily basis? It is necessary to identify what is causing your husband to have a drinking problem? Consult a psychiatrist and explain about your husband’s drinking problem. Your husband can also consult a psychologist for counselling sessions. I understand you are worried about your husband. Try to be calm and take care of yourself.
I suggest consulting a psychiatrist and psychologist
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Contact me for counselling sessions. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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If he co-operates, you can take him to de-addiction. You can convince him with known facts. Your mental health might be hugely affected. Please consult counselling psychologist.
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Itâs completely valid to feel distressed about your husbandâs drinking habits and the potential impact on your family. Alcohol dependency can strain relationships and health, but with the right support, change is possible. Seeking professional help can be a significant first step toward a healthier life for your husband and family.
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Open Communication: When heâs sober and calm, express your concerns in a loving but firm way. Focus on how his actions are affecting the family, especially the kids, and avoid blame.
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Create Boundaries: Clearly define what youâre willing to tolerate and communicate this respectfully to your husband. Find a Support Group: Look for local or online support groups like Al-Anon, which can provide emotional support and advice from others in similar situations. Take Care of Yourself: Your mental and physical health is vital. Engage in activities that bring you peace and seek support from trusted friends or professionals. We are here to guide and support you through this. Please feel free to reach out to discuss how counseling can help you and your family.
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Hi, Consult a psychologist
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Thank you for sharing your concern. It is evident that your husband's drinking habits are causing significant distress in your life, and your desire for him to change comes from a place of care for him, yourself, and your family. It is important to approach this matter with understanding and a focus on communication.
Alcohol dependence is often complex and might require both personal and professional support. Initiating a conversation with your husband during a calm moment about how his drinking is affecting you and the family could be a good starting point. Instead of focusing on blame, try expressing your feelings and concerns using "I" statements (e.g., "I feel worried about our future when you drink frequently").
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1. Consider Professional Support: Encouraging your husband to connect with a counsellor or therapist could be a significant step toward addressing his alcohol consumption and its impact on your family. A trained professional can help him explore underlying issues and develop healthier coping mechanisms.
2. Family or Couple Counselling: Since this situation affects both you and your relationship, seeking family or couple counselling could help you navigate this journey together. A safe space for open dialogue guided by a professional can create meaningful change. If you'd like, you can reach out to me for guidance and counselling. Together, we can work toward restoring balance and harmony in your life.
3. Support Groups: Encourage your husband to join support groups like Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), where he can connect with others facing similar challenges. You could also explore groups like Al-Anon for yourself to gain emotional support and practical tips.
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Choose calm moments to discuss your concerns with your husband. Focus on expressing your feelings and hopes for the future rather than placing blame.
Take care of your own mental and physical health during this time. Therapy for yourself can provide a safe outlet for your emotions and strengthen your resilience.
Remember that change takes time. Patience and consistent effort are key.
Feel free to reach out to me directly if you’d like to explore how counselling can help. Your well-being is important, and you don’t have to face this alone.
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Dr. Gargi Bansal (PhD)
Counselling Psychologist
19 yrs exp
Noida
Kindly talk to him openly regarding your fears and anxieties and if he says that its difficult for him to leave drinking then take him to any deaddiction specialist or a psychologist who can help him in this journey
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Ms. Neha Sachdev
Psychologist
11 yrs exp
Delhi
Hi ma’am
Thank you for sharing your concern. In this lifestyle alcohol addiction is common. People don’t get to know when they get addicted to such things. I am sure he would have all the reasons to drink everyday or would definitely make up excuses to drink. The alcohol has reached to a stage where the body demands the mind to have alcohol. If he doesn’t take he would not be able to sleep. And to work next day, he would need that sleep.
Take a consultation from a psychiatrist for alcohol help. They would prescribe medicines which would curb the thirst of taking alcohol.
There on, he would need psychological help which would make him understand the process of alcohol in the body system and its side effects.
This needs to be taken from the emotional front.
You would need a lot of patience when dealing with ur husband.
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Firstly, take medicines from the psychiatrist
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Ms. Simran Shah
Child Behavior Therapist
6 yrs exp
Pune
Yes, I can understand what you are going through, drinking can be very stressful for the people around him..and possibly can affect the future. As this looks like an addiction, it won't be easy for him to leave even if he wants to..will recommend you to show it in a rehabilitation centre and encourage him to join AA (alcoholic anonymous groups)
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Show it to Dr for med and join AA group
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For your stress and what you are going through I would recommend you to take a counselling session to understand you on a deeper level accordingly you can work on suggested treatment
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Ms. Pooja Gupta
Psychologist
9 yrs exp
Delhi
HI,
It sounds like a very challenging situation. Your husband's daily drinking is understandably causing you significant worry, not just for his health but for the impact it may have on your family and children. It's frustrating when he makes promises to stop but fails to follow through, which can leave you feeling helpless and anxious. You may want to consider having an open and honest conversation with him about your concerns, expressing how his drinking affects your mental well-being and the family. Seeking professional help, whether through counseling for him or support for yourself, can also be a constructive step in addressing this issue. Remember, you deserve support and care too as you navigate this difficult situation.
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Ms. Jagriti Sharma
Psychologist
5 yrs exp
Faridabad
I understand it can be overwhelming and stressed for you.
Try and Talk to him about his drinking when he is sober, calm, and more likely to listen.
Use “I” Statements: Communicate feelings without blame. For example, “I feel worried when you drink heavily because it impacts our family.”
Suggest the husband consider therapy, counseling, or a de-addiction program if he is open to change.
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Ms. Farheen Moulana
Counselling Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Bangalore
I can understand your worry about your husband’s drinking problem. It is natural to feel concerned about the impact it may have on his health and also on your children. It is also important for you to understand that the addiction he is going through is of real concern and also a very complex issue. I would like have a detailed discussion with you on how he has been dealing lately with his mood and are there any major changes in his behaviour especially in interacting with the kids.
We need to understand that addiction is a complex issue which needs professional help and it is not easy to resolve this on its own. Have an open conversation about this with your husband to seek professional help with a clinical Psychologist or psychiatrist. A good counselling session and an addiction intervention will definitely help him to work on resolving the issue. With enough encouragement and motivation from his family and professional support I am sure that your husband can overcome on his addiction and work on his way to improving his life.
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Encourage your husband to connect with a psychologist for professional support
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Ms. Rizwana Parvin T M
Counselling Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Coimbatore
I really understand how you feel about this unpleasant experience in your life. Ask him to not stop abruptly but gradually this will help in reducing the quantity then slowly stopping can be done by alternating it with something he is fond of which you have to figure out. Keep educating him about the consequences so that instills fear in him and he may stop thinking about the consequences.
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Consult me I can help you overcome how to deal with your husband's alcohol addiction.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Consult a psychiatrist for your husband's issue..
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Ms. Shaifali Badoni
Clinical Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Noida
Many people assume that people who drink are doing it intentionally and they have control over it , it's just a habit. First we need to understand that alcohol dependence is a disorder and it also brings about the changes in the brain. It requires professional help both medicine and therapy to help the person out of it. It would require a lot of patience from your side.
Meanwhile,I would recommend that your happiness or emotional well being need not be dependent on his disorder
See it as a person with illness , we don't fluctuate with the person's situation
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Ms. Smriti
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
It's an addiction.need to solve it at grass root level.
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