Dr. P T Sunderam (PhD)

Me and husband are staying in Chennai for jobs. Husband and myself had conflicts in our relationship. We tried to sort it out among ourselves but changes are not happening.

Me and my husband decided to consult marriage counselor to sort our issues. We searched for good counselor whom we can approach. After thorough search we found Sunderam sir. After seeing his bio and his personal and professional experience gave confidence he can help us. He can speak in my mother tongue telugu that added a plus point so we can converse with him without language barrier.

He talked to me and my husband seperate zoom sessions to understand each person's perspective and joint session where doctor explained what is going wrong in our relationship.

Sunderam sir explained each of our behaviour patterns how we need to come to common grounds. Methods or beliefs which we learnt from our parents or society is not working then we need to upgrade ourselves for each other needs. We constantly needs to learn husband and wife syllabus to have better relationships.

After session doctor suggested to reflect ourselves sort things out. If still didn't worked out he suggested to have 2 months mentors training where there will be homeworks. We are looking forward to take trainings from experienced person.

I went to Dr. Sunderam for career counselling for my daughter udaya lakshmi N , studying in 12 class in GKM school. After a brief diagnosis...He suggested DMIT psychology test. He took the finger print scanning of the student. he explained us that we will get a 70 pages report after one week. He suggested that both child & patent

should be present for the career counselling. We went for the 2nd session &happy to see the report with lot of details.

How ever doctor's vast experience & his counseling method &interpretation of the report point by point for 21/2 hrs gave more clarity to 3 of us.

The following points are to be mentioned..

1. Career priority for my daughter

2. Clarity on the career she should not choose

3. Brain neuron distribution, what learning style she should improve

4 . As a mother I liked the revealation of my daughters primary &secondary personality which is generally overlooked by parents.

5. Options of subjects, options of job

6. Doctor also gave tips to parents based on the inborn talents of the child on what games & what extra curricular activities can be developed for a stress free personality.

Parents can consider this report as a working manual to guide the future of their child.

My daughter started applying the tips immediately I was happy over her confidence

I am happy for such guidance by Dr sunderam

The doctor listened to the problem and gave the solution accordingly. He is quite helpful in understanding the situation.

I m mother of a school going child, I mtech in eng am working with a company, my husband is working in an industry, lately we found disobedience and abnormal behaviour in my 6 yrs old son, not listening to us, poor socialization skills and no concentration on study, to improve kids performance my husband located dr sunderam

counselor profile through internet,

When we talked to dr sunderam he asked us to mail us what difficulty the child is facing and what parents are expecting from doctor

We didi that through what's app, he went through the content and advised as the root cause is improper parenting style of us

Dr sunderam has 20 mnts video counseling with me and my husband

And suggested us to introspect on revising our parenting styles

The following are the education laernings from his video counseling sessions

1 the importance of parenting style

2 the womb training periods

Mother's observation

1Sir u asked to change the parenting style

2He didn't accept me as a parent

3 He is hearing all the things not listening

4 frequently mismatch in our thinking style

Father's learning

1.Counseling need for parents not for child.

2. Parenting style needs to change

Our expectations are

Let me forget about me and husband our only aim is to make my kid as normal boy

We learnt our assumption of parenting in not correct

We looked for child counseling, we got an opportunity to relook in to our relationship styles

We r looking forward for parenting counseling session with dr sunderam

Dr. Sunderam was kind and patient enough to understand me and listen to my problems. ***** **** ****** ** **** ** ********** *** **** *** **** ****** *** the seed cause of the problems I was going through.

Best in process to make me understand myself better.

I got doctor for my psychological issue and I talked him in phone. He tired to understand his case or not. Doctor asked me to mail the list of hurting things happened in life. I went to clinic after appointment, he listened to my issues patiently and he explained me how the nature of law really works. He helped me to understand the concept of people mind . Doctor identified the root cause and advised me how to come out with help of psychotherapy. Doctor shown me few psychological video which gives me more clarity. I'm happy with the approach and I feel like I can improve with next sessions.

I went to the clinic for some phsycological issue.doctor talk to me over the phone and gave me some works to be completed.i completed the homeworks and got appoinment.he paitently spent around three hrs with me and listening to my issues he cilincaly observed me and helped me to diagonis the problem.i got a lot of clarity after the diagonisition.his advice is very helpful to overcome the issue.iam getting relief from his counselling iam planning to go out of country i have my next session on skype

Iam 34 year old married women ,mother of 2 and half year old kid approached him for my psycological issues.It was a pleasant experience where the doctor makes you comfortable throughout the consultation. He listens and identifies the core of my issues in just few minutes into the session.And he clarifies it in simple way for me to understand better.

He not only spoke to me but took effort in talking to my husband which brought immense trust in him.I say finding the right counselor makes all the difference.

I am 27 years old house wife and mnc executive along with my husband approached Dr p t sunderam for marriage counselling session

He asked us to do home work and come for the session, we got appointment after completing the home work, we had two joint counselling session.

The following things we Learnt in the session

1 Accepting the truth

2 Forgiving eachother and others

3 Vibrating with thoughts

I recommend Dr sunderam foe the below

Comfortable to talk with

Understands the intensity of the problem

A good listener

The session was meant for 30 mnts I went till 90 mnts, the extra 60 mnts was not charged for us I thank Dr for his gesture

We r going ahead as per his advise fir thr next session

I am a 29 year old married woman and I approached Doctor sir through practo for the relationship issues in my marriage. He was very patient in listening to me and allowed to vent out my difficulties. He also asked and learnt about the minute details in order to find the root cause of the problem. Few major learnings from my consultation with the doctor is that...working with a doctor for a relationship issue is like a project work which should be carried out by both the partners along with the doctor with complete trust, transparency and faith. And the next learning is that of you are in family where you have been brought up only with sisters, then you have to slowly learn to understand the motherly feel from the male and the vice versa with your spouse. It is a process which we need to work on understanding the difference in order to lead a happy marriage life. Felt positive after the discussion and looking to start working on the process.