Dyslexia & Learning Disability Clinic & Counselling Centre, Vikas Puri

I brought my sister to prof Singh as she is a wonderful personality , but has no friends. She has been complaining about excessive anxiety and general difficulty in controlling her life. Our house is constantly hassled as everyday is a catastrophe and after dropping 3 semesters in Amity , she has been in constant extreme agitation as she felt she can not handle it. She is so pretty but felt that she makes a fool of herself in front of other people. Eating food was like approaching death itself which may occur if she ate the wrong food. Answering her question of " am I fat " was agony. If we say you are not fat , she says you are telling a lie, if we say change your dress , she says I know I am fat. We came to prof Singh because my mother was so stressed that every phone call to her was like a crises. The Medicines had also made her dull and slow. Initially we had some reservations as we were advised to have someone come with her always, but soon we got very comfortable when we were shown through a test what her real problem was. I never knew that therapy could be effective as my sister was able to leave her self destructive behaviour quite fast. We are very happy that she has been able to redirect her energy from conflict and her anxiety into a more constructive outlet of gymming and studying because of the type of redirection that she received from sir. I also want to thank sir for reducing the charges as we wanted a longer term therapy for her so that she can avoid problems in later life.

My biggest mistake was my image in society and what will people say. Samaj and the repurcusions of samaj and out neighbours. Since 2018 when I started counselling it took me 2 months to get to the real point. It took me 3 months of self shae trying to bring myself to face Prof GB. He was always welcoming , even in the most negative of my behaviour. When I could not tolerate my arranged marriages partners lack of desire to consumate the marriage, I broke down. I'm not willing to live 50 years more pretending that we are a happy couple. The fact was we were never a happy couple. My husband refused therapy or counselling. But my parents came with me as they felt they owed me a answer. In therapy I found peace and a strange sense of calmness. What it is I don't know. There was a lot of calmness and reassurance from prof Singh. I had calculated that if I get depressed and have to eat medicines for my life I would be spending almost a 1000 a month and over 10 years I would have spent 9 lakh rupees just on medicines. My father said to me to understand my self and become strong. I did it and Singh sir did what no one did. He gave me back my dignity and value being a woman. He was slightly harsh in between , now I realise why. Truth is harsh. I came back to his sessions regularly twice a week and today I am so strong , no one on this earth can hurt me emotionally. What my parents could not do , what society could not do , he did it for me. He became a therapist, a father, a guide and a mentor . He became a life line which I can call when I am confused about a decision to make. I took a divorce and moved on. I was not willing to suffer my life in lies. Prof Singh helped me every step of the way. I will stand by his side any day he needs a daughter to help him as he ages. That is how much I owe him

I am writing from Mumbai where I live in Colaba, being a Naval Officer. We read about dr singh and as we are constantly posted all over India, we decided to consult him online. My wife's parents live in sector 21 noida and they recommend dr singh to us.

I am very impressed with the quality of the online appointment, and the quality of the testing . The online video consult facility has helped us tremendously and been worth more than meeting someone here face to face where we would be exposing our 4 year old son to Virus . Lt Cdr Singh

We always thought that a long-term relationship meets needs for self-esteem as well as for attachment. Both of us my wife and I were so closely knit that our identity and the most important sources of self-esteem was the sense of being desirable as a romantic partner. My friends started to pump up my wife saying that she was a good catch as she possesed everything a person wanted. A desirable romantic partner who is committed to a long-term, sexually exclusive relationship and appears happy in the relationship. Then came the shock of Infidelity as our respective personality styles, in interaction with each other began to become violent and hateful. I think it brought out the worrst in me as I felt I am not responsible for her behaviour or for her constant need for validation. The way I related to my wife eventually brought out the worrst tendencies in her also. I was in no way ready for therapy and reconciliation and it took time to come around to it. Today we have healed, but the images are difficult to forgive and forget. But I am content that I decided to give my marriage a chance again and both of us were able to find each other again. I admit I may also have ignoring her while working to rise the corporate ladder, and never thought about her feelings. For what it is worth I am grateful that dr singh did not let my marriage break and worked with us tirelessly over the last 8 months to bind the families together. Which I now realise is for the best.

In a compelling and articulate way, Prof Singh showed me the way emotional legacy passed down to me from my parents and affected me as a child emotionally and how socially it was damaging me as a adult. Undoubtedly, one of the best sequence of therapy I have seen where he has helped us identify my emotional road blocks and provided a path through them. It takes a lot of courage to accept what you have not gotten childhood and what wasn't there that should have been there the guidance the attachment the kind of love that parents should be giving to us as children and how the way our parents talk to us can do so much damage to us at a later stage of our life. It has been a very gratifying although intense platform where we were able to discuss my issues which allow me to distinguish my worries from my misunderstanding of the fact that I was under serious depression. As more of us who are educated faced with Modern day problems, I think good psychotherapy is something we must look out for for our own well-being.

I turned 32 this year and my wife and I had reached a situation where we felt this relationship thing suks. I used to live with a best is yet to come approach, but when I met prof singh singh I felt I missed the loss of my younger self. The thought that I was really not loved in a way I wanted to be was very soul crushing. My self-confidence very low, and I felt that the best, most vibrant years of my life were wasted in pleasing people. That I apparently lived an illusion was something that was really troubling me. My meetings with sir have led to my relationship with my parents and sister and specially my father to grow strong. This has helped me connect to my parents and I feel much better and stronger with this connect.

I came to prof singh as I had reached a point that I saw no real value in marriage now, as there were so many painful fights and arguments.The history, the intimacies I have shared, collected, created with my wife are so deep, I  wondered if I could ever love again as I felt my innocence was gone. I don’t regret my marriage but it is very wrong that I was insulted and verbally shunned regularly by her and my father in law specially. I was scared of living alone when I came and I felt no woman would like or love me as I would be judged. Prof Singh has really helped us all and although I know now I can live independently,  I still want to share my life with my wife and not another woman. He has been a pillar for me.

Dear Dr Singh. You probably do not want to encourage interaction over WhatsApp. I just wish to share a couple of things, this one time and not again. This was the most helpful interaction regarding my emotions and well-being . When I cried and spoke out loudly without holding back, I felt no hesitation, I did not feel words getting caught in my throat. I cried and spoke with A******* and Ashma and R** (my friend and current boss). And now, my hesitation to speak has reduced considerably. Thank you. You have a truly special healing quality to your words and approach. I'm grateful. I'll take some time to implement your next steps but I'll do them and book my next session soon. Have a wonderful evening and rest of the week.

I met with Prof Singh as I was a distraught mother. My son, who attends an independent school priding itself on specializing in differential learners, had a very bad week. The school’s disciplinary point system – an ad hoc way for teachers to let students know they are unhappy with their behavior – yielded a number of points well beyond the accepted threshold for my son.

The guidelines for giving out negative points at this school aren’t clear. The child just knows that he gets a lot of them and has internalized that he is a “bad” kid, the “annoying” kid. The one thing that is crystal clear is that my child’s learning difference is Dyslexia , presenting with severe impulse control challenges. Most of the points, the head of discipine wrote in an email to me, were due to “excessive talking.” But giving negative points to an extremely bright child who struggles with a known challenge of impulsivity seems a bit like disciplining a blind person for excessive “not seeing.”

Prof Singh has been able to assist my child and me and the teacher in addressing that any child’s challenges requires compassion, reframing and recognizing the reality of “invisible” disabilities. Furthermore, children learn from adults who role model patience and understanding. In the spirit of building self-esteem, we must assess a student’s lagging skills and collaboratively strategize with the student for an effective outcome. We have to accept that some skills take longer to learn and require contextual practice. Most importantly we need the help of dedicated therapists who can see beyond their own benefits the way Prof Singh Did.

The way he took the history of all surrounding of patient and how he explained it, it's satisfactory

Prof Singh has helped guide my son and daughter in law. My son was crzy to and wanted to leave the house after 9 months of marriage. My daughter in law and he were constantly fighting over space and sharing of household work with my Mrs. We were not used to this type of fighting coming from the Government Service sector and being a middle class family. What is this type of love marriage if the marriage is to simply break the house. How many years have my wife and me spent just to educate our son and in 9 months he wants a different house. It is impossible. Sure Shot he would have shifted out, but better sense prevailed after the counselling and now he is not shifting out. I am very unhappy with this attitude of marrying and then breaking a family. But now we are okay that our daughter in law is seeing the logic and reason to co-operate. I am very grateful to the doctor for his helpful nature and calmness.