Consulted Dr. Prof. G.B. Singh (PhD) (Clinical Psychologist)
I recommend the doctor
Happy with: Doctor friendlinessExplanation of the health issueTreatment satisfactionValue for money
Deciding to end a relationship might not be the same as actually leaving. I realised this when my 9 year marriage was near divorce. The more entangled I was, the more I could not work out what logistics might have to be worked out.
As Lawyer, this is the last thing I expected in my life. I thought It’s OK to take your time and plan the exit and the next phase. But I realised that the hardest relationship I wanted to get out of was the one that was the most dysfunctional. We came to Dr Singh after reading a lot and decoding this was the psychologist we wanted to meet. Coming from Nepal is not easy but when the stress level definitely takes its toll you want what you see is the most promising option. It has been a absolutely great decision and I now understand why one should take the better choice when we need some help. Dr Singh became more like a coach, therapist and a really grounded mentor the kind that loves you unconditionally and isn’t afraid to pull you back to reality. I feared for my emotional safety and he definitely became and built a strong one person team to support us in the transition.
When my beautiful marriage fell apart I did what we all do. Stayed as was more comfortable to stay in the broken place rather than risk the terrifying unknown. Dr Singh helped me shed countless rational excuses that kept me stuck and showed how to let go of the idea I had that this is the worst time for me to make a change. He showed me in ways how to remove my inhibitions about the fact that I’m too busy, too tired, too needy.
I think he taught us that there is nothing such as there is not - too not-enough. How not to exhaust ourself mentally and physically, and not continually repeat the same behavior that created the problems in the first place. It has been expensive, but worth every bit saving our marriage and we owe this to him. Samantha Koirala