Consulted Dr. Prof. G.B. Singh (Clinical Psychologist) for Psychological Problems
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When Dr Singh asked us how he can help us, I wondered what to reply. As a couple we have been living separate lives for 5 years of 8 years of marriage Before my husband and I got married we lived like a couple that was the envy of our workplace. Now we have become more like roommates, living in a PG than a married couple. There is a lack of communication, conversation, intimacy and we both feel we just co-exist. Sex has tapered off and changes in the bedroom where affection is √withheld as punishment from both sides is common. We both and I want to be fair we both get angry over small things and then withhold affection. Our conflicts have escalated to a point where we have even resorted to psychological and physical violence. Dr Singh undertook the whole responsibility of maintaining the emotional alliance and he never betrayed our secrets to the other. I know my husband tried and even told him we would go to another counsellor, but Dr Singh just kept smiling. Today we can say we know how to stop we have enough understanding of not to allow escalation of conflict into violence. Mostly I am amazed how my husband has changed more than me. I thought I would need to mould myself, but my husband is more a fan and now speaks to challenging cognitive distortions and how we should not be entangled in conflicts and how we should better control our anger and other negative emotions and negotiate time-outs during conflict. First I thought my husbands attitude was a farce. But 7 months consistent behaviour can’t be a farce.