Vaginal itching. Water felt relief.

Hello Doctor, I'm feeling vaginal itching from 3 days. { Previously got itching during lockdown like in the month of April and itching lasted for almost like month and I didn't consulted any doctor. Before that, 5-6 months before got vaginal itching and vaginal lips swelling (little.. Not more), used medication and problem solved. } Now I'm recently married.  •No pain during intercourse, my husband using his saliva as lubricant and didn't use any other lubricants or coconut oil. He always asks to apply coconut oil as lubricant which I don't have any positive opinion on. In my opinion there is no need of any other lubricants. But he says he want some lubricant or else he's feeling little pain and discomfort. •Getting discharge which is white and in crumbs. • Feeling itching on the lips and also, on some inner part. •No pain, no burning sensation but feeling some weirdness. • Today from almost 2 hrs felt so much itching while sleeping. After washing with normal water felt relief.