To divorce or not. I divorce or not.

Marriage is not only about sex. It involves taking responsibilities and turns in family life. Have you discussed with your wife about this? Many things can be sorted via discussions. You both need to explore why your marriage is at rocks. What factors are causing difficulties. Without having these answers even if you move forward to another relationship, problems would crop up some time or the other. I know many couples having children with disabilities but due to their excellent understanding that least affects their married life. You also need to understand why your wife is not interested in having a conjugal relationship with you. She also might be suffering from a whole lot of difficulties. Communicate with each other. That is extremely important for a relationship even before you express your difficulties in a professional forum. Then, identify the problems and then act. Having an autistic child doesn’t mean that your married life is over. However if the differences between you and your wife are so great to even recognise difficulties in couple hood , then it might be a red flag sign

Consult a marital therapist

Marital counseling

Hey buddy Thanks for reaching out and sharing. I can’t imagine how helpless and frustrated u feel. It seems unfair I know to be married to someone who doesn’t care abt what u want. Having a mentally challenged child involved in this equation makes matters more challenging for both of u. Whether to end this marriage or not is a question which we would need to probe into collaboratively and determine ur next steps. I can completely understand that u feel lonely and hopeless in this situation and want to change ur life.

Pls connect over a online or face to face consult.

Hey! Thanks for coming out with this. I can see that this is causing you significant amount of distress, due to which it needs to be addressed. I think we firstly need to consider the possible reasons behind the incompatibility issues between your wife and you. This can be considered only by getting an in-depth understanding of the concerns that are affecting your marriage. It is also important that we understand the barriers for communication between the both of you, as it is extremely important to communicate your needs to eachother. There is also a chance that your wife has certain concerns too, which need to be communicated. Please talk to her about what you're experiencing, and try and communicate any possible solutions to the same. The both of you can also consider consulting a relationship counselor together.

Please talk to your wife about the concerns you are experiencing, and suggest scheduling an appointment with a relationship counsellor.

Hi. Good that you have this doubt. We can observe that you are completely stressed in this life. They are better ways to solve your issues. Pls get an appointment to help you out with your issues. We also can guide you and your wife on these compatibility issues.

It looks like that you are interested only a normal life and not ready to take responsibility for your Child and for your wife.. The incompatible difffs which you both are going through maybe because there is lack of Understanding between the two of you.. I suggest you to consult a psychological Counselor cum Marriage Counselor to understand yourself better and to overcome the challenges you face..

For more details and clarity you can connect with me by using the link given below :- https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir