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The girl doesn't communicate with me
I like a girl.She said that I am her good friend.But she never texts or calls me first.Even when I texts her she replies in one word and when I call her she only talks about herself and what's going on in her life... It's nothing about me...What problem does she have?
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This is not problem dear, this what she is? better is to accept her the way she is? rather than thinking that she is abnormal, bcz as you mentioned that i like her. so if you like her like her than like her the way she is! and better is to talk to her in polite ways and mentioned this that you are talking about yourself, so that she understand your suggest and than next time u can put herself in front in a nice ways.
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Hi user, Are you conversations with your friend a little one sided? Do they talk about their lives and problems without showing any interest in yours? Relationships are all about give and take. It's normal for there to be X morning person is in a crisis and needs more focus and support than the other....... Being a good listener is a part of good friendship. But in general friendship should be based on mutual support always. IT CAN BE DRAINING.... IF IT'S ALWAYS ONE SIDED AFFAIR. HEALTHY FRIENDSHIP IS ALWAYS BALANCED FRIENDSHIP One sided friendships can be frustrating but try to find out could there be another reason for their behaviour. friendship is a two way Street you must understand if it is one sided friendship????
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it is challenging to admit to yourself that you are in this sort of dynamic with someone but things that you can look out for are when there is a begging filling that your kindness is not being returned. how to handle * talk to them about it. * ask to make it more two sided * if all efforts fail, end things. * IF YOU FIND IT DIFFICULT TO HANDLE ON YOUR OWN SEEK COUNSELING.
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talking will help counseling will help you understand dynamics of relationship......will help you figure out * how to get your friendship back on track * how to stay away from one sided friendships * how to cope with your feelings * learn ways to handle things , how people treat you. * how not to attract similar kind of relationship in future.
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Hi. Take time. Understand her. Be optimistic
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“To have good communications skills means you are able to make your point without a lot of fillers and stumbling.” Gregory Davidson “When people talk, listen completely. Most people never listen.” Ernest Hemingway “The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn’t being said.” Peter Drucker
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