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Sincere in study but not scoring
My son is dedicated hardworking child. However he is not scoring well in studies. Often gets scolded for not so good marks. What to do and keep him motivated
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I have read through your scenario. I am able to understand that he is unable to score good marks. There could be a discrepancy with his learning style which is making his score less.
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Understand how he learns the best through Visual or Auditory Or Kinesthetic or combination of two
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If the child is doing goi in other areas that means he has norma IQ level,You can visit a psychologist to get him assess for this problem ,You can opt for one to one sessions for your child
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Hi. Accept your child according to his potentials. Do not pressurize. You can enroll him in dance movement therapy. Traditional dance steps, Mudra can help him focusing in other activities like studies
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practice Gayatri Mudra (without chanting)
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give him a bright colorful optimistic life
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I appreciate that you reach out with your concern Whatever information you provided according to it he is displaying 2great qualities of hard working n want to study for better academics He needs proper professional academic assistance either by u or any acdemician for next 3 months. Still his performance is not improving then seek help from professional psychologist (RCI registered) for learning disability
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1) Do regular brain Gym (see from you tube) 2) for teaching and learning use lots of videos, charts, maps, audios hands on work 3) one to one teaching n learning 4) Daily an hour out door games
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Consult a clinical psychologist or get evaluated and advised accordingly.
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consult a clinical psychologist.
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Hi, it is good to know your son is hardworking. You should feel proud of your son for being hardworking. You are concerned about your son not scoring well in studies. In order to help your son it is important to identify if he feels anxious about exams. Putting too much stress on him will not be a good move to get him motivated. It is important to be patient with him so that he feels calm while studying. Since your son is dedicated and hardworking he will do well in the future. In order to help your son you can consult a psychologist. A psychologist will guide your son with ways to feel calm and motivated.
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Hi...please consult a Child Psychologist or a Psychologist. And if possible get his Learning Style tested. We all have different learning styles and if we are taught in that style we learn better and easy. Puberty (12 years old) is a difficult phase for most kids because their body, mind, and social experiences are changing rapidly and sometimes they face issues adjusting to this change, which may impact their academic performance as well. Apart from this there might be other underlying issues which need to checked by a Psychologist. Do take minimum 4-5 sessions to understand his condition, as kids take time to develop trust before sharing their thoughts and emotions.
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Consult a Child Psychologist or a Psychologist.
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Hello there It is very nice to know that he is trying to work hard and improve himself in studies. If we look at the grades, then it can have many reasons. You should be very happy for his hard work. Maybe he is having some problems with the study pattern or with something that you aren't able to identify. You don't need to worry much about it. You can contact a counsellor. You can also contact me and I can help you identify the reasons and problems behind his low scores.
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Talk to your son and try to understand what is he finding it difficult, Whether it is the subjects, or the school or the syllabus or sometimes the teachers.. Accordingly, we can motivate him, or change the school or the syllabus etc.,
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For more details and clarity you can connect with me by using the link given below :- https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Hello Mam Just check what is the learning style your child has and then focus on the strong one also keep the other way also in point of view If possible look out for some common mistakes he may do like Spelling error Careless mathematics mistakes Difficulties in reading If the above mentioned issues are there connect with a psychologist .
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understand what all error your child is making
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