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Sex problem

I m married  woman. V had two years of our marriage. But my husband avoids me for sex. He always excuses.  Wenver i feel lyk hvng sex. He says no.. he nvr feels lyk hvng sex for 15 days or for months. So plz help me out for same. He refuses to conslt to doc too
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Dr. Diwakar Sharma Delhi | Psychiatrist
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Hi dere I have just come across ur problem. Sex is an expression of love and not the other way round. Yes of course it is important to feel satisfied in a relation but psychologically more then physically. Usually sexual appetite is higher in males but its not a rule. It is important for sex to have a strong psychological attraction which charges all attention to initiate and gratify physical sensations.
If a man starts avoiding the same then there may be an underlying hesitation or anxiety or physical problem or other psychological hurdles which he may not b able to figure out.
A heart to heart communication regarding the same can sometimes work wonders regarding the same. Alternately a counsellor or a therapist ( rarely a common but openminded friend ) can also prove pretty useful if direct discussion seems difficult to initiate. U can use pen n paper method too.
Hope this helps..but feel free to raise further queries...
Thank u
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