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Age-38, married from last 9 years. Now during sex makeup have to go pee multiple times and penis gets hard then during become normal or sometime discharge very early. Now getting this
problem frequently
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Do urine for culture and sensitivity to rule out urinary tract infection.
Consult a sexologist to rule out Ed and Pe
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It can be anxiety or urinary infection which might affect the frequency of the urine.
It can also affect your sexual function. It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated and can affect your personal and sexual life.
It needs to be treated in a holistic approach for complete recovery.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects.
You need an expert sexologist who is a good homeopathic physician and psychologist.
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I have been working as a sexologist, homeopathic physician and psychologist for the last 17 years of experience. You can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance.
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These symptoms need evaluation and are often treatable. Consult to identify the cause and discuss appropriate management.
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Based on your symptoms, you may be experiencing a combination of premature ejaculation and intermittent erectile dysfunction, along with a frequent urge to urinate during sexual activity. These symptoms are not a normal part of aging and should be evaluated, especially since they have started occurring more frequently.
The repeated urge to urinate during intimacy can occur due to:
An overactive or sensitive bladder.
Prostate-related conditions (such as prostatitis or benign enlargement).
Urinary tract irritation.
Anxiety during intercourse.
Less commonly, uncontrolled diabetes or other medical conditions.
Losing the erection during intercourse and ejaculating earlier than desired can be influenced by psychological stress, fatigue, poor sleep, obesity, hormonal issues, or vascular problems. Since you have been married for 9 years and this is a recent change, it is important to look for an underlying cause rather than assuming it is normal.
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For a comprehensive evaluation and personalized treatment plan, you may connect with us at 9 3 1 5 6 6 1 5 6 5. We will assess your condition in detail and provide an individualized approach to improve both your urinary and sexual health.
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Try to empty your bladder before sexual activity and avoid excessive fluids, tea, coffee, or alcohol for 1â2 hours beforehand if they worsen the urinary urgency. Maintain a healthy weight, exercise regularly, sleep 7â9 hours each night, and manage stress, as these measures can improve both erection quality and ejaculation control. Since your symptoms are becoming more frequent, early evaluation is recommended, as most underlying causes are treatable and many men experience significant improvement with the right management. Thank you
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●𝗩𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗲𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗛𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗰
●𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗺𝘆 𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗼𝗳 1.5 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗳.
●𝗪𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗯𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘁𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁.
●𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝘂𝗹𝘁 𝗺𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗪𝗮𝗿𝗺 𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘀.
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Don't worry sir...
Take herbal supplements..
To get rid of this problem permanently without any side effects..
To be sexually fit completely..
To increase discharge time..
Erection will be hard..
To enjoy sexual activity and satisfy your partner completely
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consult for prescription and guidance
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avoid smoking
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Hello Practo User, use homoeopathic medications for your problem to get Instant and effective results.Its Curable, no need to worry about. Homoeopathic medicines plays Excellent role to treat Such problems in a hollistic way without any side effect.I suggest you to message me your complete history in private chat with all reports & details & Consult Online through Practo. I will guide you for holistic & effective Results with homoeopathy ! Take care !! Best Regards:)
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Hi, medicines can help. Consult online for treatment
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Dr. Mrinal Gautam
Psychiatrist
3 yrs exp
Kolhapur
The combination of urinary urgency specifically during intimacy ("have to go pee multiple times"), fluctuating erectile firmness, and secondary early ejaculation strongly points toward Lower Urinary Tract Symptoms (LUTS) secondary to Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia (BPH) or chronic prostatitis / pelvic floor dysfunction.
At age 38, inflammation or mild enlargement of the prostate gland irritates the bladder neck and prostatic urethra. During sexual arousal, blood engorgement in the prostate and surrounding pelvic tissue further compresses the urethra, triggering an immediate false urge to urinate. This uncomfortable urinary sensation interrupts autonomic arousal, causing the penis to lose firmness mid-way. In turn, the anxiety of losing an erection creates an adrenaline rush that often triggers rapid, premature discharge.
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Consult a Urologist In-Person: Schedule an evaluation to examine the prostate, assess urinary flow, and rule out low-grade urinary tract or prostatic inflammation.
Undergo Baseline Diagnostic Screening:
Urine Routine & Culture: To rule out active bacterial infection or cystitis.
Ultrasound of Pelvis with Post-Void Residual (PVR): To check prostate volume and verify if the bladder empties completely.
Serum PSA & Testosterone Profile: To evaluate prostate activity and hormonal balance.
Explore Medical Therapy: If prostatic inflammation or LUTS is confirmed, a urologist may prescribe an alpha-blocker (such as Tamsulosin or Silodosin) or a low-dose daily PDE5 inhibitor (like Tadalafil 5 mg), which simultaneously relaxes prostate/bladder neck smooth muscle and improves erectile blood flow.
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Emptying your bladder right before sex is helpful, but do not aggressively strain to urinate during arousal. Straining increases pelvic floor muscle tension, which can worsen both bladder irritability and erectile maintenance.
Address the Sequence of Events: Recognize that the early discharge and lost erections are likely secondary reactions to the physical discomfort of urinary urgency, rather than primary sexual dysfunction.
Avoid Excessive Fluid Intake Before Intimacy: Limit caffeine, alcohol, and large volumes of water for 2 hours prior to planned intercourse to reduce background bladder volume.
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Dr. Jyoti Sharma
Sexologist
12 yrs exp
Rajkot
Consult online through Pracyo more detail
Is required
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Dr. Sunil Nagar
Neuropsychiatrist
18 yrs exp
Rewa
This may be due to erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and a urinary problem.
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Please get checked for diabetes, prostate or urine problems, thyroid disease, and anxiety. Consult a urologist or sexologist for proper evaluation and treatment.
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